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From past and present experience...LOL.....I notice the people who get defense the most are already overly selfconscious about the issue already. It is like touching an exposed nerve. But there really are only one thing to do in their position.....make a choice. Do I want to get off my ass and do somethign about it or am I more comfortable bathing in self pity? There is not forcing the decision to be made and they are on there own in that regards. Klowndog mentioned "leading by example".......if that is the best we can do until they make their choice......then we have to be content with that. I guess in the end it depends what you are capable of coping with.
But in this type of lifestyle we live......can you live with someone that doesn't subscribe to the same passion for a healthy way of life the way you do?
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You know.....if you start saving now.....in a year or so.....you should be able to afford that sense of humor you so desparately need.
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