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Originally Posted by crg914
That's tough bro. Good luck to you getting through it. I will keep you in my prayers. I must say though, even though putting bodybuilding before your family is not the right thing to do, that is no excuse for what she did and you should not blame yourself. The right thing to do would be for her to have come to you as a wife, and adult and try to discuss things to convey how she was feeling instead of relying on the emotional support of another man.
How long have you guys been together/married? In addition to seeing the counselor, do you attend church weekly? My fiance and I go every Sunday and I have an analogy for you that I really like. Think of you and your wife as the two base points of a triangle and God as the top point. The closer each of you grows toward God, the closer you also end up growing to each other. I hope you can visualize what I mean.
At any rate, I wish you the best, and am glad you're making steps in the direction of recovery.
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Yes we attended UP UNTIL I picked up a 2nd job that I recently quit in Jan..right before this happen. We have been together for 7.5 years married for 7..we got married pretty quickly we just knew we were meant for each other..she was pregnant with our son in less than 2 months after we got married
God is the reason we have overcome this up to this point and I believe we will be ok. I have been praying for him to give me the strengh to start trusting her and forgiving this other man.. its HARD... VERY HARD..