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Adjusting to the economic situation
Anyone here having to really tighten up their spending belts and/or make major adjustments due to the economy?
We're dumping our house, mortgage company will take less than we owe (short sale) and forgive the difference. We're looking at divorce, i'm not sure i'm going to see the housing market improve anytime soon, so instead of riding it out and hoping to recoup the equity we 'had', i'm bailing. Going from a 4500ft house in a very nice neighborhood to a doublewide on the farm. I can deduct all expenses (mgrs. house), live cheap, be where my equipment is (15k stolen in 08) and house workers there when i build a house there, or we put the marriage back together. Wife and girls have a nice house rented in the town we're in now, 30 miles away... Any of y'all making many adjustments?
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There is no doubt I am watching spending. It is not working well yet as I had some large purchases to make (appliances, new car for gf because of ending lease), but I definately have cut back at home and in the office. Things could get real bad, real fast. When systems really start to fail they can go haywire quickly, I would like to be prepared.
BTW, forgive me if I'm wrong, but the divorce/don't divorce issue seems it should be separate from the economic issues. With that said, my divorce definately was an economic issue.
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I personally have not been affected guys but sure feel for you.
Layoffs are happening left and right. This economy really sucks. I bought a home in 2006 and since then it has lost hundreds of thousands in equity. I pay $10,000 a year in property tax, and i will be sending my kids to private school because the public schools here suck( bussing, over crowded, etc). My wife is due in March.. Im always thinking about the future.. I hope things can get better for everyone.
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My entire company has taken a 10% paycut, it's pissed off a lot of people but no one has quit from it. I was living in alone and have since decided to get a roommate again. I like being alone but the extra money will help. I also am watching spending like many others, I have downgraded a lot of my things, sold off toys (dune buddy, 67 chevelle, etc...) however, I will not part with my Escalade EXT, I love my baby too much. AHAHA
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Gator, My businesses have gone down to almost Bankruptcy. This is what I did, I cut all my expenses down, diversified my business, got rid of the bigger house on a short sell. My income is 1/3 of what it used to be, we are business minded, we will survive. Hang in there, and realize that alot of people have the same problems or worse. I always reflect back on where I came from, basically nothing, so fight on and remeber family is more important than any material thing.
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It's relevant you say that because I'm the controller so I get all the calls when the president doesn't want to deal with them about the 10% paycut and this is exactly what I tell everyone. So far we have NOT had even 1 layoff which is pretty good for this economy. Some of them are still pissy but you can't fix everyone. Respect and sorry to hear about your friend.
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stories like yours. Speaking for myself, I'm self employed and I have definitely noticed a decrease in sales and employment. Was just talking to another person in the same business as me and he has noticed a drop as well. We get paid so many days out from the point of sale and usage so the hurt is postponed a bit but he has weathered a few of these economic storms and he, like myself, just tighten up the belt, watch expenses. Thankfully for me, my wife is very successful, good at her job and rewarded very well. But her employer is in the middle of a merger, so we will just have to see what happens. Plan for the worst and hope for the best. The papers are filled with horror stories, the media exaggerating many as is typical, but many are too true for comfort. I worked for a major major electronics firm for 30 years until my job was shipped overseas during the last crisis. And I trained my replace- ment and I did not even know it. Talk about being sucker punched. Never again I said, I picked myself up, and with the help of my wife, stared all over again. It's a hell of a wake-up call, but in retrospect, it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Clearly I would never want to go through that again, but one never knows in these crazy times. Take care of yourself.
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Everlast and I got married a year ago, and our houses have been on the market for 2 yrs now. Yes, we are making 3 house payments and are feeling the pinch big time. The town where my house is has reached an unemployment rate of 11.5% the second worst in the nation, so I don't see my house selling any time soon. I'm not sure how much longer we can keep this up. I'm basically working 3 jobs right now. My full-time job, helping Everlast with his business and starting my own business. It's about to run me ragged, but I can't quit my full time job until at least one house sells.
The thing that just doesn't seem fair is neither one of us would be in this situation if we hadn't have gotten married and moved to TN. Don't get me wrong... I will never regret marrying Everlast, but our timing just was all wrong. It's like I've spent all of this time in crappy relationships and living thru hell and I finally meet someone who is good to me and now this. I just want to know when will be "good times" for us. Sorry... guess I needed to vent. I've been dealing with a merger (the company I work for got bought out by our competitor) on top of all this. I'm about spent... emotionally and physically. I've been sick for the past week.
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I live in MI and it REALLY sucks here. Fortunately our income is solid now(me and the Mrs.), but it was a rough 10 months before this, but we've cut way back, let our house go to the bank, bought another (fantastic deal) which we'll have paid off in 3 yrs....and banking as much as possible.
Setting ourselves up for LOW LOW living expenses since I don't see things getting better with the economy. If you have to buy anything now though, this is a great time as EVERYONE is willing to wheel and deal. |
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