truth.............

[EVERLAST]

So I'm in the line today paying for the chicken and salad
and I tell the girl no dressing and got a water.
I sit down and "feel eyes on me"...a really pretty girl in a skirt and heels was actually checking me out (...giddy laughter here) I am going to be 47 in August and she was maybe 35, a banker from the one closeby, and she having lunch w her mom. I noticed her and we exchange a nod and a smile.
Not even a word was spoken. She scribbles down a number on the back of her card and presses it into my hand as shes leaving. Right in front of her mom but on the sly...
Hey I am sooooo married, but it was nice.

OF COURSE,
I will not call her and she didnt know about me.
So, no harm no foul, right?

This happens every once in a while...
How do you guys handle it?

 

[Designbuilt]

So I'm in the line today paying for the chicken and salad
and I tell the girl no dressing and got a water.
I sit down and "feel eyes on me"...a really pretty girl in a skirt and heels was actually checking me out (...giddy laughter here) I am going to be 47 in August and she was maybe 35, a banker from the one closeby, and she having lunch w her mom. I noticed her and we exchange a nod and a smile.
Not even a word was spoken. She scribbles down a number on the back of her card and presses it into my hand as shes leaving. Right in front of her mom but on the sly...
Hey I am sooooo married, but it was nice.

OF COURSE,
I will not call her and she didnt know about me.
So, no harm no foul, right?

This happens every once in a while...
How do you guys handle it?

The truth? Or the politically correct answer?

I'm kidding, of course, I'm married too, but if you see her again, just tell her and let her know that she made your day. That's about all you can really do. I mean I would tell her that I'm flattered, but taken, that way she would'nt think that you just weren't interested.

 

[B~RAD]

So I'm in the line today paying for the chicken and salad
and I tell the girl no dressing and got a water.
I sit down and "feel eyes on me"...a really pretty girl in a skirt and heels was actually checking me out (...giddy laughter here) I am going to be 47 in August and she was maybe 35, a banker from the one closeby, and she having lunch w her mom. I noticed her and we exchange a nod and a smile.
Not even a word was spoken. She scribbles down a number on the back of her card and presses it into my hand as shes leaving. Right in front of her mom but on the sly...
Hey I am sooooo married, but it was nice.

OF COURSE,
I will not call her and she didnt know about me.
So, no harm no foul, right?

This happens every once in a while...
How do you guys handle it?

You're a good man. far and few between

 

[johndoe]

Enjoy the feeling and let it go. Sure is nice to get that kind of attention once in a while.

 

[mooshue]

I have been having this happen to me lately when i walk downtown on breaks.
I just tell them i can't call them i have a girlfriend, but i still am cordial when i see them as are they.
I tell my girlfriend about it all the time, and she tells me when she is hit on. We both like it, it lets us know we are with someone that is attractive plus it does feel good for a few days to have that happen

 

[EasyEJL]

The truth? Or the politically correct answer?

I'm kidding, of course, I'm married too, but if you see her again, just tell her and let her know that she made your day. That's about all you can really do. I mean I would tell her that I'm flattered, but taken, that way she would'nt think that you just weren't interested.

didn't we have a president who proved that oral sex didn't count as sexual relations?

 

[mooshue]

didn't we have a president who proved that oral sex didn't count as sexual relations?

Im with him!!!! I don't believe that anal counts either

 

[BigDM]

So I'm in the line today paying for the chicken and salad
and I tell the girl no dressing and got a water.
I sit down and "feel eyes on me"...a really pretty girl in a skirt and heels was actually checking me out (...giddy laughter here) I am going to be 47 in August and she was maybe 35, a banker from the one closeby, and she having lunch w her mom. I noticed her and we exchange a nod and a smile.
Not even a word was spoken. She scribbles down a number on the back of her card and presses it into my hand as shes leaving. Right in front of her mom but on the sly...
Hey I am sooooo married, but it was nice.

OF COURSE,
I will not call her and she didnt know about me.
So, no harm no foul, right?

This happens every once in a while...
How do you guys handle it?

No harm no foul, but please throw that effin card away bro! You're with the ONE and life is good. It's a great feeling to be noticed by a new & attractive woman, but it could lead to trouble if you flirt with those thoughts too long. Just acknowledge that you still got it and keep on being the man!