No, you sound like a wise man. I used to actually care about that. I was shallow, superficial and slept with women based soley on looks and education level. It was a power trip for me. I was a boy and that made me feel like a man. After having a child I still did not slow down. Then, a few years ago, I met someone special. My friends were in shock after seeing pics of her on my phone because she had nothing in common with my past norms. I can say this that I have grown as a person from being with her and can honsetly say that no matter who I sleep with it is no sexier than masturbating after being with her. I feel like none of those women even counted before her. I was not aware that a man could have a multiple orgasm until I had one with her. We have broken up a couple of times and I slept with a few each time. These were seriously attractive women and I could only get excited/turned on when I began to think about her. Afterward I was just more lonely, even with this hot woman beside me in my bed. Now, well into my thirties I have experienced a level of arousal that so many others could never give me. So, to those of you still putting notches in the bed post, have fun while it lasts because after you meet the one none of that random ass will do a damn thing for you. Lol.