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Alright guys pardon me if this is in the wrong section, didn't think counseling would have been the best section.
Fiance and I split for good, 2.5 years together. Terrible relationship. But thats not the point.
I am in my mid twenties, successful, nice body, educated, have copious amounts of free time, travel for pleasure out of the country 4-6 times a year w/ spouse, and love to spoil whomever I am with. I know I have alot to offer in a relationship but have huge self esteem issues. I have only been in two serious relationships, both were absolutely terrible. Its embarrassing to say as a guy but extreme mental, emotional, physical abuse.
1) Clothes/Appearance? Any websites good for ordering clothing? I am looking at my wardrobe, some nice stuff but its most all ripped/torn/holes from fights over the years with her.
Any appearance things? I'm pretty good at body hair removal but to be honest I don't really take care of my physical appearance anymore besides that and hair cuts.
2) Meeting women, what are some good places to do this? I don't go to bars/clubs. Pretty much just the gym besides work (no females) and school. I have completely forgotten how to talk to women. I for the most part haven't been allowed to even speak to men/women for the past two years unless my significant other was present and to be honest I no longer have social skills.
Had a girl eyeing me all night last night at the gym, tried to talk to her and her headphones were in, didn't think she noticed, about 10 minutes later she comes up and tries to talk to me and I completely clamed up, started sweating, and nearly fainted.Just said "oh sorry thought you were someone else".
Trying to piece my life back together but I have been in either absolutely terrible relationships for the past 6 years or overseas and I honestly don't know where to start.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Fiance and I split for good, 2.5 years together. Terrible relationship. But thats not the point.
I am in my mid twenties, successful, nice body, educated, have copious amounts of free time, travel for pleasure out of the country 4-6 times a year w/ spouse, and love to spoil whomever I am with. I know I have alot to offer in a relationship but have huge self esteem issues. I have only been in two serious relationships, both were absolutely terrible. Its embarrassing to say as a guy but extreme mental, emotional, physical abuse.
1) Clothes/Appearance? Any websites good for ordering clothing? I am looking at my wardrobe, some nice stuff but its most all ripped/torn/holes from fights over the years with her.
Any appearance things? I'm pretty good at body hair removal but to be honest I don't really take care of my physical appearance anymore besides that and hair cuts.
2) Meeting women, what are some good places to do this? I don't go to bars/clubs. Pretty much just the gym besides work (no females) and school. I have completely forgotten how to talk to women. I for the most part haven't been allowed to even speak to men/women for the past two years unless my significant other was present and to be honest I no longer have social skills.
Had a girl eyeing me all night last night at the gym, tried to talk to her and her headphones were in, didn't think she noticed, about 10 minutes later she comes up and tries to talk to me and I completely clamed up, started sweating, and nearly fainted.Just said "oh sorry thought you were someone else".
Trying to piece my life back together but I have been in either absolutely terrible relationships for the past 6 years or overseas and I honestly don't know where to start.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.