So I toss out my girlfriend of a year because she was hanging out with a guy...he was the brother of her close friend and he was there when she would be at her friends house...anyway, i find out she was texting him and messaging him regularly and i went balistic and told her she couldnt be trusted and kicked her out the end of october...so i meet a new girl, beautiful, size 2, athletic and fine...real sweet heart...a little sexually under-experienced but willing to please...anyway my ex keeps messaging me saying that she has learned what she lost and wants back and we were really good but i can not get past what she did to me...she calls me tody crying about how horrible her life is and she cant deal with it and i tell her she isnt my problem anymore...part of me really cared for this girl, to the point that I had her engagement ring half paid for when shit hit the fan...but her trust and loyalty has been damaged with me and i dont think that it is fixable...the new girl has fell for me hard already and I have to make a decision soon but i believe that the new girl has a huge potential to be amazing in every way with a little teaching what is expected...she really has no experience with relationships so i find i need to teach her sometimes...they are both 24 while i am 38...let here some feed back here...thanks