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Any of you guys have Aspergers? feeling really down... really depressed...

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Teared for the first time in years... When i was diagnosed with aspergers this afternoon at the doctors... I went to the doctor originally for social anxiety but turns out i have both mild anxiety and aspergers... Feeling like complete shit. So no matter how hard i try to improve, i will always be screwed socially. My body was crap, thought i would use roids and get all the girls. I got attention from alot of beautiful woman, but without social skills it wont do you any good.

So I suspected that I had social anxiety because all my life I had trouble talking to guys and girls. I just had nothing to talk about. I thought I was just very introverted. All i know how to do is ask questions, i cant really respond to anything other than "yea," "that sucks" "nice" I have a monotone voice, and a slight speech issue(some people think im from another country because of the way i pronounce certain words) I have a very low voice. Started lifting, got confidence, tried improving my social skills but no luck. Thought I had nothing to lose so resulted to blasting and cruising and oddly enough iv got more pussy in the past 8 months then i have my entire life. I get it not from my social skills, I got it from my body. I would pull girls in the club (sober because it would hurt my gains) and they would take me home, it would be an akward walk because lots of awkward silences... because i just dont know what to say.
These girls were 5/10s... some 4/10s... (NOT FAT , BUT NOT GOOD IN THE FACE)

I have no friends, so i go out alone and the hot girls are always with friends so i cant dance with them.

Anyways, I downloaded an app called Tinder, and got a lot of really hot matches. I met up with 7 beautiful girls off this app ar a bar, and the convo usually only lasts 10 minutes. And then they never want to do anything with me after the first meet up.. Really got me depressed so i went to the docotr thinking i can get social anxiety meds or something but it turns out i have aspergers after a long process with therapists and exams...


Does anyone on here have aspergers? PM for any drugs that can help me. Even if its just a 1 time think to use before a date. FEeling like complete shit!!!! I can get girls from my body and looks but when i get the date, i cant really talk to them and they realize how boring and wierd i am... and nothing i can do to change this because there is no cure for aspergers!! fucking bulshit!! fml


Guess all i could do is lift and bang 4/10 sluts and get stds for the rest of my life. or settle and marry a 4/10 because no girl above a 6/10 will ever find me interesting . hell i cant even make normal guy friends. and to think i can be interesting to a girl. just laughable...


FUCK MY LIFE.


Only hope is that i was perhaps misdiagnosed for aspergers. maybe i can see another doctor. But it makes sense. I have nothing to ever talk about. always awkawrd silences with guys and girls. EVEN WITH MY FAMILY MEMBERS..

EVen with my own dad, and brother and sister. they complain im boring and ask why im so quiet. what anxiety do i have ? idc what my family thinks about me. makes sense. i have aspergers... :banghead:




BEUTIFUL 8/10 GIRLS FIND ME ATTRACTIVE AND WANT ME, BUT I CANT HOLD A SINGLE CONVO WIT HTHEM BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. LET ALONE BE INTERESTING ENOUGH.

I CANT GET ANY FRIENDS BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TALK ABOUT OR THINK OF ANYTHING TO SAY.

I TRY AND TRY AND CANT DO NOTHING BECAUSE I HAVE A MENTAL DISORDER. AND IM SUPPOSED TO BE OK WITH THIS?

fuck if it was not for my family(They love me) id put a shotgun through my head right now. no way to live. but due to the love of my family, i will never do such thing.
 
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The average 8/10 slut is dumb as shit anyway so don't feel to bad. Plus pussy is pussy, once the lights go off it's all pretty much the same unless she is worn out like the grand canyon. Plus the 4/10 sluts try harder especially if they think they have a good looking dude.

I'm pretty sure I have some form of autism/aspergers or some shit, was tested for like add/adhd over 10 years ago when I was a kid and came back negative but I was awkward socially.

Being social is simple, it's just about having a common interest. Example so I'm pretty cool with most of the guys I work with but do I have a shit ton in common with them hell no, I'm not into race cars, or off roading, or redneck shit, or tattoo's. But one thing most of us have in common is we all watch Game of Thrones. Even if you don't have a common interest people tend to like to talk about their lives and you kinda just listen and see if you can somehow relate to them, or you do the talking and see if they can relate to you.

As bad as it sounds/is for you alcohol does help with the social barrier. Before I got interested in fitness(and splurges once in a while) get blasted then your social awkwardness goes away.

Example I use to have this bad habit of like saying something then repeating it in my head over and over and over analyzing it because i didn't think it sounded right and I made an ass out of myself. So I can be reserved with talking, or being social. Then a couple drinks later I act a fool But I also have a bad habit of just blurting shit out without thinking about it.

It's kinda of hard to give advice without actually interacting with ya.
 
The average 8/10 slut is dumb as shit anyway so don't feel to bad. Plus pussy is pussy, once the lights go off it's all pretty much the same unless she is worn out like the grand canyon. Plus the 4/10 sluts try harder especially if they think they have a good looking dude.

I'm pretty sure I have some form of autism/aspergers or some shit, was tested for like add/adhd over 10 years ago when I was a kid and came back negative but I was awkward socially.

Being social is simple, it's just about having a common interest. Example so I'm pretty cool with most of the guys I work with but do I have a shit ton in common with them hell no, I'm not into race cars, or off roading, or redneck shit, or tattoo's. But one thing most of us have in common is we all watch Game of Thrones. Even if you don't have a common interest people tend to like to talk about their lives and you kinda just listen and see if you can somehow relate to them, or you do the talking and see if they can relate to you.

As bad as it sounds/is for you alcohol does help with the social barrier. Before I got interested in fitness(and splurges once in a while) get blasted then your social awkwardness goes away.

Example I use to have this bad habit of like saying something then repeating it in my head over and over and over analyzing it because i didn't think it sounded right and I made an ass out of myself. So I can be reserved with talking, or being social. Then a couple drinks later I act a fool But I also have a bad habit of just blurting shit out without thinking about it.

It's kinda of hard to give advice without actually interacting with ya.
thanks man. It definitely is true. Im banging a 3/10 ight now that i took her virginity. and she sucks my cock and swallows my jizz. with me just going to her. i dont have to eat her pu$$y or anything. but pretty sure if i have post a photo of her everyone will vomit. so i wont.

thanks for the advice. i will keep that in mind.
 
Is there a support group for Aspergers in your area? Might be worth looking into.
 
Hey man, I do not have Asperger's myself but a good friend of mine does. First of all this guy is the most stand up citizen I know. I could call this guy from the other side of the country if my car broke down and he would hop in his car on a whim and drive out to help me. He is strong as an ox, he is actually pretty unassuming as he is not into bodybuilding too much more of a strength guy but I have personally witnessed him go toe to toe with world class strength athletes and beat them repeatedly. He has had a lot of people take advantage of him in his life due to his generosity, but believe me you don't need them. I have never been great with women myself, never been the type of guy to befriend women at a bar, but this led to me meeting the greatest girl I have ever met and have been with for years. That is more valuable to me than anything. It's not about quantity it's about quality and a person whether it be a friend or a potential girlfriend/wife will see you for your genuine kindness and that will be the attracting force between the two of you.
 
thanks man. It definitely is true. Im banging a 3/10 ight now that i took her virginity. and she sucks my cock and swallows my jizz. with me just going to her. i dont have to eat her pu$$y or anything. but pretty sure if i have post a photo of her everyone will vomit. so i wont.

thanks for the advice. i will keep that in mind.

No offense but this is something you need to work on if you want to be considered a decent human being, asbergers or not you shouldn't talk like that about somebody. That's just fucking rude all around right there and that coupled with parts of your first post really made me lose any sympathy for you.

Generally I've found that the most socially awkward people are the ones that say stupid shit, make stupid jokes, etc. to try and get a laugh but the shit they say just has people dislike them even more. Often times they will say sexual things all the time or bring that into the discussion to try and sound "cool" but really just makes you sound like a giant douchebag. These are the people that nobody wants to be friends with because they are next to impossible to talk to without trying so hard to be funny and cool.

You need to work on how you perceive people in general, just be yourself and don't try so hard to impress people. I will go out on a limb and say posting like you did about the girls you have been with and are currently with is not the real you, rather you are trying to impress people on a bodybuilding forum by talking that way, cut that shit out and just treat people the way they deserve to be treated and most will reciprocate.
 
I have met at least one person with Aspbergers- I can tell from your post that you are doing MUCH better than him.
You sound like yours is a milder form, this poor fellow cant talk to people at all without seeming almost scary.
It took me a while at the gym to understand what was happening with him, and I was actually rude to him a couple times before I realized I was being an ass and the guy was just trying to communicate and make freinds.
This poor guy has extreme OCD with his, but hes a Math genius and teaches online math courses at two universities.

So, take it in, at least in your case you are not 100% debilitated, you do understand the norms, and you are getting some girls-this guy Im talking about will probably never get a woman.

My best advice is not to think of anything to say, just talk, and ask them questions, women like it when you ask them about THEM. YOu dont have to talk so much as show interest in what they like and do.
I wish you luck.
 
Aspergers is the least of your worries. You have never met that special girl because you talk about women like they are a piece of crap. Due to years of finding it difficult to communication etc you have developed this way... a bit like oh they wouldn't want me but doesn't matter cos they are all sluts. You should follow Tom's advice and just try and build up your confidence over time.

You will hopefully see the world as a happier place the happier you become with yourself. Stop all the bitterness and feeling sorry for yourself and simply appreciate life. You could have an amazing life but that's up to you. There is someone out there for you just make sure to treat her nice if she ever walks into your life.
 
It's sad because people may think they are rude/weird etc but it simply the way their brain works. But as you say this guys is different from his words and just as to work on his confidence and trying not to be so down on himself.


I have met at least one person with Aspbergers- I can tell from your post that you are doing MUCH better than him.
You sound like yours is a milder form, this poor fellow cant talk to people at all without seeming almost scary.
It took me a while at the gym to understand what was happening with him, and I was actually rude to him a couple times before I realized I was being an ass and the guy was just trying to communicate and make freinds.
This poor guy has extreme OCD with his, but hes a Math genius and teaches online math courses at two universities.

So, take it in, at least in your case you are not 100% debilitated, you do understand the norms, and you are getting some girls-this guy Im talking about will probably never get a woman.

My best advice is not to think of anything to say, just talk, and ask them questions, women like it when you ask them about THEM. YOu dont have to talk so much as show interest in what they like and do.
I wish you luck.
 
I have a friend who has this. She is one of the nicest people I know. She learned to work around her social issues by meeting people that have the same common interests she does. She struggles with mundane conversation. but loves science, fitness and vintage things. She never once has dehumanized someone due to her issues.
 
so you felt kinda down going into the dr`s office and he "tests" you, maybe with some non-sense verbal questions and gives you a label, "aspergers" and you take that shit to heart? F` him! I`ll tell you a true story of a guy with cancer, dr`s said he was gonna die in 3 months, his family would not let the dr`s tell him their expectation of his life expectancy. He lived 3 years!! Then a fill in dr told the guy he had less than a month, to get his affairs in order, he died almost 30 days later. True story. My point is, if your given a label, your life has a meaning, that`s what you will feel daily... SO MAKE IT A GOOD LABEL!! YOU DECIDE YOUR OWN LABEL. If you think your a lame dork, what can everybody else possibly think?
 
Hey bud,
I can tell you this, my brother has been diagnosed with aspergers and he has it relatively bad, and I'm suspected of it heavily by my doctors and will be formally testing for it soon. I know at least one other individual with aspergers who i work with and I am the only person there who knows how to interact with him. We have in depth and substantial conversations and we both can understand the ideas we convey to each other.
It certainly has affected me my entire life and it's only now that I am dealing with a quality specialist that I'm really beginning to understand how a lot of the pieces fall into place. My whole life I've found difficulty talking with humans, regardless of identity. I've always felt like I was on the outside looking in because at some point it becomes painfully clear that you operate on a fundamentally different system. Mind you this system is not inferior as some would claim rather simply different; the same principal results are achieved with minor to aggressive difference in nuance.
Because we don't fit easily into the system everyone else operates on, we can fall behind in some areas and feel inferior or somehow worse. Most people in positions of responsibility when you are a child don't know how to recognize the symptoms so we get left behind the learning curve. Yet often is the case we are intelligent people and for a long time we can bank on that higher intelligence to make up for our deficient learning skills. We often excel greatly in areas we apply ourselves.
As for the social difficulty I know it very well, but most people wouldn't know it at this point due to over two decades of constant effort. Perhaps it is my temperament but I've always asked a million questions on every little detail of whatever I am dealing with until I understand it. I've applied this strategy rigorously to interpersonal interaction and it has luckily allowed me to operate with good report with most people I ever come into contact with. For the vast and overwhelming majority of people like us social skills and understanding are a grueling effort. The same way you throw yourself into your weight training you through yourself into understanding and commanding yourself with other humans.
It's probably going to take years of your life working very hard every day to improve your social abilities. I was in agony my entire growing youth due to being chronically surrounded by people who did not know how to understand or ask questions, and somehow have taught myself most everything I know. I was also fortunate to have a very close friend who was a ladies man, and he gave me some fine pointers that honestly are really obvious when you hear them and it's really a matter of accepting the truth of what you observe rather than demanding there must be some secret.
Bottom line is if you work hard and bust your ass every day trying to improve yourself, you will. The pieces fall into place eventually, no matter how slow it may seem it does indeed occur.
 
Also there is a massive amount of truth in mindset creating your perspective, despite the fact it seems impossible when stuck in your position. I don't know how many days I've had to lie to myself in the mirror telling myself I am handsome, or smart, or funny, or even worthwhile; many days in the beginning you will still feel down because you recognize you are lying to youself and that feels bad. But as time goes on you begin to forget you had to tell yourself that and you begin to believe. Then eventually you become the idea you've built yourself to be; you become truly confident, entertaining, interesting, and worthwhile in your eyes.
This is all cognitive therapy based concepts, and it works wonders. But it only works as well as you let it; it was only works as hard as you do.
As well was mentioned finding a support group, that is very beneficial. When we fail to be around intelligent, thoughtful, compassionate, and understanding people we must strive and go out in search of such.
Also depression/anxiety and some other mental conditions are common to coexist in those with aspergers.
If you need anything man, I'm here for you; I've been there and I am farther than many other due to my the particulars of my life.
 
From what I gather you don't have aspergers, but rather a speech disorder. You mentioned you have a low monotone voice with an accent that people have commented on and made you feel self-conscious/uncomfortable, perhaps some people have even made fun of you or ridiculed you for the way you talk. You might want to consider seeing a speech therapist to help you learn to communicate in a way where you enjoy speaking and other people will enjoy listening to you.
 
Damn, I feel you OP, im in the same boat as you. Im to afraid to get it officially diagnosed though, close doctors i know have been able to confirm it. it sucks so bad, i figured out human interaction through reading various books, but my mind still sees it as a "process", the silence you speak about is frustrating, people always notice it and comment, i have to let them know i don't talk much, the few friends I do have are mostly extroverted and im able to appear normal with them, if they are not around, after a little time, people realize im different, I have to constantly think about saying something other than yea, cool, nice, pretty much one worded responses for acknowledgment, I'm still working on timing my facial reactions, and then i have to think about keeping eye contact, recognizing certain facial gestures, it's mentally exhausting plus im the introverted type. I've only gotten the girls who wanted to get me.

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