Hey ladies & gents, I've got a question to run past you that hopefully someone can help me understand.
I've been in a series of 'serious relationships' that I have begun to notice end in a similar way every time.
Things typically go without a hitch for 6 months, head over heels, blah blah. At some point(usually around the year mark, although some have lasted longer) there comes a point when my feelings just stop dead. I am not talking a waning of feeling for the lady in question. We are talking I go to bed one night madly in love & content, and wake up the next morning with absolutely 0 feelings toward her.
It's not as if I dislike her at all. In most of these there have been 0 fights, arguments, etc. I am very laid back & not much gets me riled up. It's just a complete lack of feeling that I can't really understand.
No matter how hard I try to 'convince' myself that I can get that feeling back, it never happens. Also it makes for the stickiest break ups in history. How do you tell someone that that loved you dearly that there is no more feeling to be had?
Am I rambling lol?
I've been in a series of 'serious relationships' that I have begun to notice end in a similar way every time.
Things typically go without a hitch for 6 months, head over heels, blah blah. At some point(usually around the year mark, although some have lasted longer) there comes a point when my feelings just stop dead. I am not talking a waning of feeling for the lady in question. We are talking I go to bed one night madly in love & content, and wake up the next morning with absolutely 0 feelings toward her.
It's not as if I dislike her at all. In most of these there have been 0 fights, arguments, etc. I am very laid back & not much gets me riled up. It's just a complete lack of feeling that I can't really understand.
No matter how hard I try to 'convince' myself that I can get that feeling back, it never happens. Also it makes for the stickiest break ups in history. How do you tell someone that that loved you dearly that there is no more feeling to be had?
Am I rambling lol?