I’ll save you guys a lot of the background but essentially I have made a job of fucking up relationships for a number of years now and missed out on several opportunities to marry two people that I would have loved to have a life with. Big blows but my fault.
A large part of some of my struggle is likely due to having ADD and OCD after being evaluated by a couple professionals that I saw for therapy for several years.
Recently I made some massive steps to correct a lot of actions and behaviors in my life so that I don’t do the same thing with my current relationship that I did in past ones which I’m really excited about as it’s entirelt new territory for me.
Probably sounds like a stupid question to some but my question revolves primarily around maintaining sexual interest in and aggression towards a partner? I’ve typically had a horrible behavior of having multiple females in my life at any given time which caused me to develop somewhat of a dependence on different sexual outlets but have taken huge steps to eliminate that urge going forward. Any tips, tricks, or things that you guys do to manage yourself mentally, especially those who have struggled with similar issues? This girlfriend in particular looks fantastic physically and I am very attracted to her just from an objective basis as well.
TLDR:
Do you guys, especially the ones with trust/commitment issues, have any tips tricks for maintaining a healthy sexual desire for a long term (hoping lifelong) partner? I’m up for any and all suggestions no matter how weird or crazy as I want to get ahead of this and stay ahead of it.
A large part of some of my struggle is likely due to having ADD and OCD after being evaluated by a couple professionals that I saw for therapy for several years.
Recently I made some massive steps to correct a lot of actions and behaviors in my life so that I don’t do the same thing with my current relationship that I did in past ones which I’m really excited about as it’s entirelt new territory for me.
Probably sounds like a stupid question to some but my question revolves primarily around maintaining sexual interest in and aggression towards a partner? I’ve typically had a horrible behavior of having multiple females in my life at any given time which caused me to develop somewhat of a dependence on different sexual outlets but have taken huge steps to eliminate that urge going forward. Any tips, tricks, or things that you guys do to manage yourself mentally, especially those who have struggled with similar issues? This girlfriend in particular looks fantastic physically and I am very attracted to her just from an objective basis as well.
TLDR:
Do you guys, especially the ones with trust/commitment issues, have any tips tricks for maintaining a healthy sexual desire for a long term (hoping lifelong) partner? I’m up for any and all suggestions no matter how weird or crazy as I want to get ahead of this and stay ahead of it.
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