Everybody is telling you to throw drugs at it, but honestly I’ll go out on a limb here and tell you
@juggy38 that I think you’re just a sensitive dude and might want to not rush shit sexually until it feels right. You usually know after 1-3 dates if it feels right and if your dick is saying no then it’s probably not right.
Not trying to take a shot at you man, it just seems like from your posting you’re a different kind of guy from the “smash and move on” type we see here often...
Just food for thought. She may be a 10 but if you’re not clicking, is it really worth the effort of throwing drugs at it just to be able to tell yourself “I did her”?