Methods of Attracting Women

[FatCakes]

Per the thread title, I'm curious what methods y'all find the most effective for attracting women. Open to any and all suggestions.

Any books, websites, podcasts, youtubers, Gurus etc you find to actually have solid information?

The reason being some lifting buddies and I all came to the conclusion the main reason we started lifting was to attract women. We all admitted we've never once researched this but had we spent even a fraction of the time as we do lifting/reading BB forums we'd have to be experts. I can't begin to imagine the hours that would accumulate to.

I did a quick Google search and it's all the same crap. I have my own experiences I could share but curious to hear what y'all have to say!

 

[heavyhitter]

I’m not movie star good looking or anything....but I’ve worked hard on my body and it looks good, and I have a pretty good sense of humor combined with the fact that I treat women respectfully and ive never had trouble getting women this way. No special tips or tricks. Be creative with the women tou speak to. I met my wife online after banging my way through tons of women. Her profile said she liked tattoos. I messaged her and said, “you know for someone who likes tattoos it doesn’t look like you have any?” And that forced her to respond and we hit it off from there. Having some personality goes a long way

 

[danieltx]

Oh man, this is going to be a train wreck of a thread.

 

[USMuscle9403]

Yikes

I'm kinda sorta keto, but fuck it, I'm getting the popcorn

 

[SouthernMuscle]

if youre to the point that you cant pick up chicks and came here to find out how, just subscribe to brazzers and never leave the house, youre wasting your time......and ours

 

[Matsuo Munefusa]

Be a good person, work on your issues, be useful to your community and family and spend your free time doing shit that is fun as fuck. If you put yourself out there through your friend network and online dating then you will meet your partner one day (as well as probably go through 1-3+ shorter relationships that will be fun/awkward/sad and you will learn something from).

When you meet a woman that you truly connect with on a chemical level then you won’t need the advice of any “guru”.

Don’t sweat it basically. Life is long and multi faceted. While romantic relationships are crucial in a way for what we ordinarily refer to as “happiness” they are far from the only important component to life.

 

[USMuscle9403]

Be a good person, work on your issues, be useful to your community and family and spend your free time doing shit that is fun as fuck. If you put yourself out there through your friend network and online dating then you will meet your partner one day (as well as probably go through 1-3+ shorter relationships that will be fun/awkward/sad and you will learn something from).

When you meet a woman that you truly connect with on a chemical level then you won’t need the advice of any “guru”.

Don’t sweat it basically. Life is long and multi faceted. While romantic relationships are crucial in a way for what we ordinarily refer to as “happiness” they are far from the only important component to life.

Wise words

 

[Muay Thai]

dig inward, philosophy, theology, psychology - advance yourself there, and in your body/physique as well

 

[qbkilla]

if youre to the point that you cant pick up chicks and came here to find out how, just subscribe to brazzers and never leave the house, youre wasting your time......and ours

This.

Are you looking for sexual experiences or a wife?

 

[heavyhitter]

This.

Are you looking for sexual experiences or a wife?

Bingo!!! Huuuuuge difference here

 

[Mr. Malice]

It’s simple really. You can boil down to two basic rules

1. Be attractive
2. Don’t be unattractive

easy

 

[qbkilla]

Bingo!!! Huuuuuge difference here

LOL. Alot of what we do here (increasing our muscles as big as possible) isn't a good way to get random sex. Getting random women is actually the opposite (hang in bars, drug culture, be laid back and fun aka not meal prep and 10hrs in the gym).

I will say this, if sex is the problem one solution is money. Slutty girls love guys with money. Hot young girls love sugar daddies....even though its not legal escorts are readily available and guys use them who can get girls for free because sometimes Saving time beats saving money, especially if you make good money but don't have alot of free time (to text, go to the bar, let a FWB stay the night) etc. Also, strippers!

Finding a wife? I can't help with that lol.

 

[Reno911]

Open doors for the gal.

Walk on the street Side of the sidewalk (female on the inside, away from the street).

Wait at least 3-4 months to start ripping farts in front of her.

 

[SOUR DIESEL]

"Methods of Attracting Women"​

Per the thread title, I'm curious what methods y'all find the most effective for attracting women. Open to any and all suggestions.

 

[Zarati]

Looks honestly,
Then your personality will decide if they stay.

Men think money, where I live women work and make money, so they don't give a shit about money. But I'm sure the lazy leechy ones would

 

[Mr. Malice]

Looks honestly,
Then your personality will decide if they stay.

Men think money, where I live women work and make money, so they don't give a shit about money. But I'm sure the lazy leechy ones would

looks are paramount

anyone who disagrees is either deluded, or good-looking and thus do not realize their looks are the reason for their success

it is evolution



just ask a walrus

 

[maldorf]

Looks honestly,
Then your personality will decide if they stay.

Men think money, where I live women work and make money, so they don't give a shit about money. But I'm sure the lazy leechy ones would

I think you are right on here with what you say. Women no longer depend on men to live a good lifestyle.

Looks do open the door for you and are the initial attraction, and then your brain has to do the rest! I dont really see it being all that much different between men and women. For me thats how it worked too.

 

[maldorf]

looks are paramount

anyone who disagrees is either deluded, or good-looking and thus do not realize their looks are the reason for their success

it is evolution



just ask a walrus

Not always!

I think Zarati is on the money when he says that your personality decides if they stay. Some women start out as friends with a guy and then it blossoms into more because they are attracted to him as a person. I think women arent as dependent on looks as men are. Just my opinion.

 

[Mr. Malice]

Not always!

I think Zarati is on the money when he says that your personality decides if they stay. Some women start out as friends with a guy and then it blossoms into more because they are attracted to him as a person. I think women arent as dependent on looks as men are. Just my opinion.

any man can hire an escort


only kidding. but we do not know this backstory.

i know a girl who had a very rough upbringing. was abandoned by everyone she should have been able to trust.

she is very good looking, yet married a man who is very fat and unnattractive. why? because he is a sure thing, she knows he will never leave her, because he will never be able to do better.



that plentyoffish data indicated that women rated 80% of men as below average, whereas the men's rating of women was far more realistic.

so your point about men caring more about looks might not be correct

but that's just my opinion.

 

[Zarati]

any man can hire an escort


only kidding. but we do not know this backstory.

i know a girl who had a very rough upbringing. was abandoned by everyone she should have been able to trust.

she is very good looking, yet married a man who is very fat and unnattractive. why? because he is a sure thing, she knows he will never leave her, because he will never be able to do better.



that plentyoffish data indicated that women rated 80% of men as below average, whereas the men's rating of women was far more realistic.

so your point about men caring more about looks might not be correct

but that's just my opinion.

The hotter a woman, the more insecure
Sometimes being too good looking can backfire, women won't trust you because they know you are as loyal as your options lmao