He is 57 years old and the strongest and hardest working man in the gym. He has 2 daughters and is about to be single again. His GF wants him to move out but still wants to date. They have been together for 5 years. She is 41 and a super hot cougar. She can't handle living with 4 kids as she has 2 boys of her own. He has sole custody of 2 beautiful little girls whose mother move out of state 5 years ago but just recently move back about 2 months ago. talking about bad luck, she found out she has breast cancer and is doing chemo and radiation but still trying to get back into their lives and he wants her too. I had a talk to him about his daughters today who I know he loves very much and I think I was able to reach him. I told him he was selfish and they would forever hurt if he doesn't do the surgery and dies. They are 8 and 10. I think hose words really had an impact on him. Thanks for everyone input.