Ok, I am gay and my issue is with a guy, but I don't think it's much differemt from what a lot of of I read here. If you want to turn this thread into a referendum on homosexuality, please go away because that is not the issue here.
Anyway, I love this guy so much. We have been dating about 5 months, but it seems like longer. It is like is he is the best part of all previous boyfriends, rolled into one super guy. Like wow. He loves me so much. I am 49 years old and was happy single and it would take a special someone to come along, but this is the one.
The problem? He travels A LOT for work. To keep this short, he sorta blew me off at the airport after insisting I go with him. And left me there at his place just reading a book the night before (while he did last-minute email, etc), when I SAID maybe it was better that I just went home.
He is much smarter than me, and knows lots more. He has tried SO hard to make me feel special, but it sort of comes across like an adult humoring a 4-year-old. I know a lot, but in very obscure areas. But he knows about everything....air, water, plants, you name it...
I guess I should just be my normal goofy self but then I get corrected or he knows more about whatever than I do, in which case I just clam up.
Any advice?
Anyway, I love this guy so much. We have been dating about 5 months, but it seems like longer. It is like is he is the best part of all previous boyfriends, rolled into one super guy. Like wow. He loves me so much. I am 49 years old and was happy single and it would take a special someone to come along, but this is the one.
The problem? He travels A LOT for work. To keep this short, he sorta blew me off at the airport after insisting I go with him. And left me there at his place just reading a book the night before (while he did last-minute email, etc), when I SAID maybe it was better that I just went home.
He is much smarter than me, and knows lots more. He has tried SO hard to make me feel special, but it sort of comes across like an adult humoring a 4-year-old. I know a lot, but in very obscure areas. But he knows about everything....air, water, plants, you name it...
I guess I should just be my normal goofy self but then I get corrected or he knows more about whatever than I do, in which case I just clam up.
Any advice?