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Quick backstory
like 7 or 8 gyms ago, originally met a bodybuilder who was having success on the local level. At the time I had never competed. He wasnt a great guy at first meet, and that remains true.
"He" always thought, he was the caliber of dexter jackson, yet never competed on a national stage, since went on to compete in natural" organizations to be a big fish in a small pond
He is well past prime years of competing, @50 yrs +, yet still believes he is the uncrowned MR O-
I have always took this guy with a grain of salt, from the time I thought he had a special physique, to the days when I realized it was only special against the people coming out of zumba class
nothing surprises me of what has come out of his mouth about the sport, other people, and of course how high he holds himself above those people
Over the recent years, I branched out to different gyms, and got lifts in at different training facilities all over my town: met hundreds of people that I never would have, gained friends, and other gym buddies who watched me get better year after year and eventually and luckily become the guy in the gym who was the local IFBB guy
Now with having acquaintances at many facilities, I have been hearing chater that this individual has my name in his mouth on the regular, esp lately. telling people I do this and that, take this and that, supplement with XYZ, with of course zero knowledge of who I really am, what I do, or what Ive done. Truth be told, I dont even have a coach that would have an idea based on advice that had been given about supplements anyways.
without diving into who I am, and what I do - no one wants slanderous statements to tarnish their reputation, regardless of your profession, but lts fair say, my job (s) are solely based on me and who I am.
I attempted to recently joke and reply to someone speaking to me about it, "if he only knew the truth, he would have so much more trash to say".
even yesterday I told a couple guys at the gym, I wouldnt trip over something I already passed and is behind me
the realization is, I am prob more Velcro then Teflon. I can say these things dont bother my much, but I wrestle with the chaos because they do.
Some of the gym bros told me go to the owners and tell them, so he is forced to leave. One guy suggested confrontation, while another said a baseball bat to the face would be nice
Im sure may people here have had some run ins with other members and shit talkers at their gyms. some ugliness and some resolved.
just looking for some experiences, some advice, some wisdom
like 7 or 8 gyms ago, originally met a bodybuilder who was having success on the local level. At the time I had never competed. He wasnt a great guy at first meet, and that remains true.
"He" always thought, he was the caliber of dexter jackson, yet never competed on a national stage, since went on to compete in natural" organizations to be a big fish in a small pond
He is well past prime years of competing, @50 yrs +, yet still believes he is the uncrowned MR O-
I have always took this guy with a grain of salt, from the time I thought he had a special physique, to the days when I realized it was only special against the people coming out of zumba class
nothing surprises me of what has come out of his mouth about the sport, other people, and of course how high he holds himself above those people
Over the recent years, I branched out to different gyms, and got lifts in at different training facilities all over my town: met hundreds of people that I never would have, gained friends, and other gym buddies who watched me get better year after year and eventually and luckily become the guy in the gym who was the local IFBB guy
Now with having acquaintances at many facilities, I have been hearing chater that this individual has my name in his mouth on the regular, esp lately. telling people I do this and that, take this and that, supplement with XYZ, with of course zero knowledge of who I really am, what I do, or what Ive done. Truth be told, I dont even have a coach that would have an idea based on advice that had been given about supplements anyways.
without diving into who I am, and what I do - no one wants slanderous statements to tarnish their reputation, regardless of your profession, but lts fair say, my job (s) are solely based on me and who I am.
I attempted to recently joke and reply to someone speaking to me about it, "if he only knew the truth, he would have so much more trash to say".
even yesterday I told a couple guys at the gym, I wouldnt trip over something I already passed and is behind me
the realization is, I am prob more Velcro then Teflon. I can say these things dont bother my much, but I wrestle with the chaos because they do.
Some of the gym bros told me go to the owners and tell them, so he is forced to leave. One guy suggested confrontation, while another said a baseball bat to the face would be nice
Im sure may people here have had some run ins with other members and shit talkers at their gyms. some ugliness and some resolved.
just looking for some experiences, some advice, some wisdom