I will say you are good at taking things out of context. I said sex while high on marijuana is an added perk. It's not needed for me to survive or the reason I occasionally ingest thc.
And that's really neat you can make her orgasm 6-7 times, you sound like a real stud
If 9 out of 10 of the people you know are lacking in self control that badly then I would take a step back and check who I "know".
There is a reason people like to have a few drinks, or smoke a bit before sex. It lowers inhibitions and makes people more free sexually. I've had the best sex when buzzed. Not sloppy drunk, just buzzed. I do agree with the other poster in the sense, that often moderation can turn into addiction if you don't be careful. But it is highly possible to be a responsible drinker nd actually enjoy it from time to time.