Congrats on the weight loss. If a surgery makes you feel better, go for it. But also make sure that its not a destination happiness... 'as soon as I get this, my life will be better, happier, Ill find a better relationship'... It sounds like youve had some tough stuff going on. I havent had that procedure, but Ive had many patients who have, including a full body lift. The scars arent bad, as scars go, but a few thoughts and observations. Theyll fade, but use sunscreen. Sunlight can darken them. Also, theyll become really noticeable if you start gaining fat back in that area. The scar will stay hard, and everything else will start plumping up on either side of it, making it very obvious. Someone I know personally had a tuck and lipo, thinking surgery would fix her life. She fixed one thing, saw something else, and then something else, and so on. And she didnt fix her self love, or eating habits, and ended up wasting anout $12k, to be more depressed, still overweight, but now with loose, sloppy skin