Ashley Madison

[hemipower]

This is my thought too. My first wife cheated on me and I wish she had just left me rather than have an affair. It really grosses me out to think that I was having sex with her at the same time he was. If the person the spouse is cheating with has a disease you could end up with it too. Just the idea of sloppy seconds is so nasty.

I feel like somone that would cheat on their spouse is just the lowest of the low, and much of that feeling comes from my experience of being cheated on. It was one of the lowest points in my life, ranks right up there with almost dying from a heart attack! If you are that unhappy then you just need to leave the relationship/marriage. For those that are religious it really doesnt make any sense, since you made a oath to God to be faitful to your spouse.

AGREED! I discovered cheating and lying and called it quits recently...the thoughts and feelings on this end of it are terrible. She should have been SINGLE if she wanted that but...some people have NO integrity or morals. Sit in church sunday, do the family thing, but sending naked pics/vids and hooking up when the mood strikes? That's BS. I can't stand a liar...and can't even fathom doing so off and on for YEARS. I'd have severe anxiety lol.

 

[maldorf]

AGREED! I discovered cheating and lying and called it quits recently...the thoughts and feelings on this end of it are terrible. She should have been SINGLE if she wanted that but...some people have NO integrity or morals. Sit in church sunday, do the family thing, but sending naked pics/vids and hooking up when the mood strikes? That's BS. I can't stand a liar...and can't even fathom doing so off and on for YEARS. I'd have severe anxiety lol.

Originally I wanted to stay in the marriage with her but when it went down she was "in love"with her lover. I am glad that she didn't want to try again because I would have been making a huge mistake. Once your spouse cheats, you can never trust them again. Just thinking about having sex with her again after knowing someone else had been there is just nasty. Screw that. a couple of years later I married a new wife and have been happily married for over 22 years now.

 

[Kid Dynamite]

If they're fucking my wife, you dont need to judge them, God will take care of that after I kill them...YOU DONT KNOWINGLY FUCK SOMEONES WIFE! Doesnt matter how much she wants it. It's a bro code type of thing, punishable by death.

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Isn't your wife just as guilty for letting it happen?

 

[Crazy_jay]

Isn't your wife just as guilty for letting it happen?

Yes sir. In our younger days, I used to tell her if she ever cheated on me, I'd slit her throat. I was 18 then, I'm about to be 36 in another month. Now we have a 11 and 9 year old and I'd never do that to her because I'd never take my children's mother away from them no matter the piece of shit she'd be.

If you're not happy with your partner, leave them, dont cheat on them.

 

[hemipower]

Originally I wanted to stay in the marriage with her but when it went down she was "in love"with her lover. I am glad that she didn't want to try again because I would have been making a huge mistake. Once your spouse cheats, you can never trust them again. Just thinking about having sex with her again after knowing someone else had been there is just nasty. Screw that. a couple of years later I married a new wife and have been happily married for over 22 years now.

Great to hear! Hopeful I will meet someone that is a long term fit. Not in a hurry, but also not getting any younger lol.
And I'm the same, cheat and you can't be trusted. That's just showing they feel that's ok if they are bored or want something they don't really care who else it effects...selfish. No thanks.

 

[TheChosen1]

Truthfully, just like there are sites to meet married individuals to start an affair with, some of these people are also looking for someone to f*ck as their spouse watch. Long before the internet even existed, a friend of mine used to hang in or near public adult movie arcades and get picked up by married (or dating) couples who'd bring him to their place to watch him have sex with their woman. Mind you, we were young (college aged) and he thought he had it made. But I never attempted that because I told him that it could be a set up or worst, you can end up bringing something home to your wife that you didn't leave home with (i.e., an STD).

 

[cigardave007]

Great to hear! Hopeful I will meet someone that is a long term fit. Not in a hurry, but also not getting any younger lol.
And I'm the same, cheat and you can't be trusted. That's just showing they feel that's ok if they are bored or want something they don't really care who else it effects...selfish. No thanks.

I was in the same boat about 6 years ago. I was 53 at the time Don't laugh, I joined a Filipina Dating Site. Met a 38 year old Filipina. Flew to the Philippians, met her and the family. She later came on a 90 Day Fiancé VISA. We married in 2015. Couldn't be happier!!

 

[Hermogenes]

Strange assumptions
A - nobody is lying about being married
B - the site owners don't have fake profiles and some people in India impersonating customers
C - a shitload of unfuckable gay men are looking for attention from anyone
D - cuckolding is not a real thing
E - Marriages of convenience with a don't ask, don't tell policy don not exist
F - Sexless marriages don't exits
G - Sexually contemptible people get married
H - Compulsive liars would love a place like this not out of the sex just to have an opportunity to have a few people in their vortex of madness
I - Everyone is monogamous
J - your wife never did it... lol

 

[aphextwin]

Originally I wanted to stay in the marriage with her but when it went down she was "in love"with her lover. I am glad that she didn't want to try again because I would have been making a huge mistake. Once your spouse cheats, you can never trust them again. Just thinking about having sex with her again after knowing someone else had been there is just nasty. Screw that. a couple of years later I married a new wife and have been happily married for over 22 years now.

Good for you. One thing I won't tolerate is cheating. If they cheat once, they will do it again. Something to be said about integrity.