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By the looks of things I may be a bit late, and you are at a point you no longer seek aid from this thread. I can only hope my words aren't useless.
I'm glad you started this thread, everyone deserves to be heard and as well listened to. I believe all people deserve good things in life and to that end I believe things will get better as you work at them.
"I have notice that she acts on emotions and feelings without 'THINKING' first"
I personally have been there with two of my loving relationships, and from my perspective that seems like immaturity. Perhaps the way I handle emotions is damaged or unhealthy but I strongly believe that some degree of moderation to the flow of emotion is necessary.
Also the single point I always re-iterate with any relationship is communication. I view love and relationships with a degree of diplomacy. Truths may come out that you wished hadn't or perhaps everything will go swimmingly. Try talking it out the best you can.
Truly loving someone can be painful, your overwhelming desire to be with that person(s) may compel you to weather storms no other man could have. From what I understand love can be hard to define, the one thing that everyone seems to agree on is that you KNOW when it's there.
I've found that patience, kindness, and understanding can lend themselves to solidarity. Having the mindset and resolve to heal these damages/issues could make a large difference.
I hope that makes sense.
I'm glad you started this thread, everyone deserves to be heard and as well listened to. I believe all people deserve good things in life and to that end I believe things will get better as you work at them.
"I have notice that she acts on emotions and feelings without 'THINKING' first"
I personally have been there with two of my loving relationships, and from my perspective that seems like immaturity. Perhaps the way I handle emotions is damaged or unhealthy but I strongly believe that some degree of moderation to the flow of emotion is necessary.
Also the single point I always re-iterate with any relationship is communication. I view love and relationships with a degree of diplomacy. Truths may come out that you wished hadn't or perhaps everything will go swimmingly. Try talking it out the best you can.
Truly loving someone can be painful, your overwhelming desire to be with that person(s) may compel you to weather storms no other man could have. From what I understand love can be hard to define, the one thing that everyone seems to agree on is that you KNOW when it's there.
I've found that patience, kindness, and understanding can lend themselves to solidarity. Having the mindset and resolve to heal these damages/issues could make a large difference.
I hope that makes sense.