Cheating

[massnup]

My guess is you are already living better! You just haven't allowed yourself to realize it yet.
Some people never look in the mirror to find out what the problem might be. They are to busy looking for something or someone to blame for their issues.
Go have a good time tonight and take a look around at the blessings in your life!

I already am, got me a nice lookin lil blonde comin over tonight and bought another viper today that has a paxton novi supercharger on it that dynos 800 to the wheels so life is gettin better!

 

[hussy8]

Cheating is the most common problem in our life,the issue is how we deal with that.mostly people told their stories here regarding themself and their girlfriends.First we've to discuss issue with our gf regarding the problem we have from her.After that takes same suggestions from our friends,family like this room then comes on conclusion.

 

[LiftAmongstGiants]

Bro if you have honostly not done anything wrong and she doesnt believe you because of what some people said and shes breaking up with you.. Sorry but its probably one of two things... she might have not been feeling you for a while and this is her way out.. or and i say this with caution but maybe she fucked up and sees this as a way out also... just remember everything happens for a reason

 

[lntense]

If you truly didnt cheat then if its meant to be it will work it self out. If she believes them over you then she doesnt sound like shes meant for you anyway.

 

[massnup]

Well, seen her out with the guy last night and I was with another girl, I went over and shook his hand and said hows it goin and walked away, they both looked shocked... then a few hours later I guess after she was alone she started texting me and I never did text her back, so whats that tell u?

 

[Gators]

In a committed relationship, people usually cheat because they have low self esteem, and along comes someone who tells them how great they are, these folks are predatory, they seek out people that have low SE. If it's happened once high likelihood it will happen again. No matter how 'in love' 2 people are, in a long term relationship, there will be peaks and valleys, and when things aren't so good, that's when the cheating happens.

 

[smc252]

I keep beating myself over something I didn't do, My now EX gf thinks I cheated on her because some people at a party said that I did. I never touched the girl and she never touched me in any way but she wants to believe other people instead of me, she had never had no reason ever not to trust me, we was together for 8 months. Shes done because of this and theres no way she will believe me, I have sweared to God so many tiimes and said God strike me dead if I did but she wants to believe everyone else and I don't know what to do or say now? She keeps accusing me over and over and says we are beyond repair.

I'm not a psychologist but this is my take:

Either:

a. She defines cheating differently than you do.
(My fiance feels cheated on if I look at porn or flirt with another woman. I never felt that way untill we talked about it. I no longer do those things.)

or

b. she is a cheater and that is all she knows.

or

c. She is simply mental and needs help, otherwise is not worth your time.

It is very hard to let go, I am going to relationship counceling with my fiance and we are BOTH ok with it either working or even not working out in the end.

 

[cavdude]

In a committed relationship, people usually cheat because they have low self esteem, and along comes someone who tells them how great they are, these folks are predatory, they seek out people that have low SE. If it's happened once high likelihood it will happen again. No matter how 'in love' 2 people are, in a long term relationship, there will be peaks and valleys, and when things aren't so good, that's when the cheating happens.

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