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A lot of truths in this post. There is a lot of different facets for creating attraction but if were just focusing on the physical, Facial attraction is going to have A LOT more weight with women then a hot or muscular body. This is usually the case for men too esp when considering long term exclusive relationships.
If guys here would would just take a fraction of that time as they do working out and planning meals to focusing on improving and maintaining facial attractiveness--- full head of hair, white teeth, being well groomed, better dressed ; theyd make their life in generally a lot easier. Dating opportunities will expand and more people you encounter everyday will generally treat you better.
I know that this is not seen as mascualine and generally gets shamed on to try to look more handsome however it's very self defeating behavior. Example.. bigger guys always hating on the fit pretty boys.
However all grooming should be done behind close doors/ In privacy and done in such a way as it still looks natural to remain masculine. This is where pretty boys fuck it up and get such a bad rap.
If guys here would would just take a fraction of that time as they do working out and planning meals to focusing on improving and maintaining facial attractiveness--- full head of hair, white teeth, being well groomed, better dressed ; theyd make their life in generally a lot easier. Dating opportunities will expand and more people you encounter everyday will generally treat you better.
I know that this is not seen as mascualine and generally gets shamed on to try to look more handsome however it's very self defeating behavior. Example.. bigger guys always hating on the fit pretty boys.
However all grooming should be done behind close doors/ In privacy and done in such a way as it still looks natural to remain masculine. This is where pretty boys fuck it up and get such a bad rap.
People often talk like every women/man is the same on here. We are all different. However, people will always be attracted by looks first. Your physique is part of that but facial features will likely make up for most for the majority of people. If you are attractive with a good body then you will attract a lot of women. If you don't have anything else to back those looks up then you can still pull but basically just the equivalent of you in a woman. These days there are tonnes of pretty girls with no personality who spend a lot of their day taking snapchat selfies. The same if you are rich and ugly you will attract mainly gold diggers. Obviously a good personality and sense of humour is everything as well.
This is all common sense and as Maldorf posted it's about balance. The fact a lot of guys really into the gym are self absorbed idiots flexing at every reflection puts girls off. They are obsessed with their bodies and think women are as well which is never the case. Being big can put girls off but if you're nice and fun once they see that the stereotype disappears from their minds. Most of you guys think all women are golddiggers or this and that and that is part of the reason you probably have no idea how to get attractive and well rounded women. I will say generally women definitely prefer athletic, lean with size but nothing over the top. But I haven't had an issue when out at my biggest I just seem to attract more "naughty" girls.