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Okay I'll try to make this very short... I have been dating this girl for a couple of weeks. She has had a job that is more seasonal with an opportunity to become permanent. She had worked very hard to try and get this permanent position, yet she ended up not getting the job. During this period she didn't seem to be herself (a total 180), and when she figured out she didn't get the job she really became withdrawn. Monday she stopped responding to my messages. She didn't even get on her facebook page (which she loves to do). I have called her a few times, and finally I did get a message from her apologizing for not answering my calls. Anyway I asked her if she would like to get together and talk and she commented that she, "Really wanted to just be alone for a couple more days." So I stopped by her apt. to check on her really quick, since I was close by for work. Her car was there, but no one answered the door. She could have been at the pool or with friends which is fine.
I'm probably just being paranoid, but I am really concerned. I hate that she takes this so hard. I know she is having some rough times, and I want to help her in any way that I can. Do you all think I should be concerned? I want to give her the space that she needs. But maybe it's the caregiver in me that feels like well I need to help her, and to be truthful I guess I'm being selfish because I feel like she doesn't need this time alone, instead, I can be there to help her through it.
I'm probably just being paranoid, but I am really concerned. I hate that she takes this so hard. I know she is having some rough times, and I want to help her in any way that I can. Do you all think I should be concerned? I want to give her the space that she needs. But maybe it's the caregiver in me that feels like well I need to help her, and to be truthful I guess I'm being selfish because I feel like she doesn't need this time alone, instead, I can be there to help her through it.