Dating is a war zone: stay safe bros

[Fa Seeshus]

By no means do I have it figured out, but you can generally learn enough from how they talk about past guys. The crazy ones will not shut up about that. They will lay out a complete map to the hellish road trip you can either embark on or pass on to the next bidder.

 

[AllLoadedUp]

27 here, I’m considering at this point to dating older women 35-40 at least someone that has her shit together mentally

Now that made me laugh. No offense.

 

[AllLoadedUp]

I just don’t know how people do it man. I’m pretty picky with who I date too. Finally found what I thought was a good one. Good looking girl, decent job, enjoying the time with her the last few weeks.

But the drama… Jesus fucking Christ the drama. I can’t even go to the gym for 2 hours without an argument breaking out because I didn’t text back. That was this morning.

This evening— argument breaks out again because I stopped responding. I mean the conversation fizzled out. This happens, plus I had errands and other shit to do. I figured no biggie, I’ll just text her later. Apparently it’s a problem again

I just can’t do this emotional drama shit. Is this normal? Guys with girlfriend and wife’s, or ex girlfriends or wife’s—how often do you guys argue? Is it over petty shit or actually important arguments?

Should I be happy that she cares if she’s this clingy? Or should I just turn and run? I think I was genuinely more happy when I was single minding my own business than being brought into this kind of petty drama.

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My advice. RUUUUUUUUUUUN. It's who and how she is. She's not changing. Either accept it and live with it. Or as I say RUUUUUUUUUUN. Life too short to deal with that crap.

 

[Sectør]

My advice. RUUUUUUUUUUUN. It's who and how she is. She's not changing. Either accept it and live with it. Or as I say RUUUUUUUUUUN. Life too short to deal with that crap.

Yeah I got away from that one as quickly as possible. She was giving me a headache

Thankfully found a gym girl that competes in NPC bikini, and we live very similar lifestyles with the dieting and sleep/recovery focus, no drama at all, we don’t party or drink, and we both love to train. Just feels way more natural. She’s actually starting prep in a few weeks as well so thatll be fun

 

[AllLoadedUp]

Yeah I got away from that one as quickly as possible. She was giving me a headache

Thankfully found a gym girl that competes in NPC bikini, and we live very similar lifestyles with the dieting and sleep/recovery focus, no drama at all, we don’t party or drink, and we both love to train. Just feels way more natural. She’s actually starting prep in a few weeks as well so thatll be fun

If only I could find one like that. I've kinda accepted my love life is pretty much over with at 52. Women around my age look like crap and I'm not interested. Younger ones either have young kids, I'm not raising some other mans kids nor will I be number 50 on things important to her, or they're not interested in an old man like me anyway. Ha ha.

 

[OldManLogan]

I just don’t know how people do it man. I’m pretty picky with who I date too. Finally found what I thought was a good one. Good looking girl, decent job, enjoying the time with her the last few weeks.

But the drama… Jesus fucking Christ the drama. I can’t even go to the gym for 2 hours without an argument breaking out because I didn’t text back. That was this morning.

This evening— argument breaks out again because I stopped responding. I mean the conversation fizzled out. This happens, plus I had errands and other shit to do. I figured no biggie, I’ll just text her later. Apparently it’s a problem again

I just can’t do this emotional drama shit. Is this normal? Guys with girlfriend and wife’s, or ex girlfriends or wife’s—how often do you guys argue? Is it over petty shit or actually important arguments?

Should I be happy that she cares if she’s this clingy? Or should I just turn and run? I think I was genuinely more happy when I was single minding my own business than being brought into this kind of petty drama.

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Man, my wife is 100% my best friend- and we don’t argue that often at all. Seriously any relationship that feels like work, or you can’t be your true self all the time, and have to edit or filter yourself- move on.

 

[Wisteria]

Let me reassure you guys that some of us women have the same issues like you do but I truly believe that there are good men and women out there; even if they didn’t make it to our door yet. A good relationship should add value to your life and no drama or stress cause life can become stressful enough sometimes. But you can’t force love and partnership and the more you start looking for it, the more you end up making unhealthy compromises and comitting for less.

And yes, I agree on that; everything should start with a „bromance", even between a man and a woman; someone we can team up with. I know how annoying it can be when people keep teelling you that the right person will come along. I think mine got stuck in the traffic of life or something ... but who knows what or who is lurking behind the next corner; sometimes the best things in life happen when we least expect them.

I am happy for everyone who found their significant other and I wish everyone out there who is still looking, to be found by someone special who will add a big chunk of happiness to their life

 

[MonkeyBoy]

If a woman openly states she’s independent and confident then chances are she’s the very opposite

Most woman who fuck a guy on the first night say "I normally don't do this" LOL.... and if a woman is that confient, she doesn't need to tell you she is, she just is!!!