Delayed Ejaculation

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

Didn't really want to go into too much detail here. I did as much research as I could, and really came up empty handed. Getting hard and staying hard is a piece of cake, getting to the promised land is a chore, usually have to take care of it myself.

This is nothing new, been like that my whole life.....which can be nice when you throw down for 2 hrs the first time w/ a girl, and impress the shit out of her.....but it's a novelty that looses its luster quickly.

So....considering I might want kids one day, and I'd really just like to be able to blow my load where it belongs....does anyone know anything about this? I'd be more than interested in any suggestions....recommendations...if 20 provirons would work....I'd take em...

I did see a doc...he just laughed and said to wear a condom...."thanks doc"

If anyone knows how to fix this but needs details....just let me know.

the_warrior · Sep 17, 2009

Personally, I'm not very sensitive (never been able to get off from anything other than sex), but I have found that if I don't rub one out for awhile (try a week) it becomes a whole lot easier to finish (or rather, harder not to, lol).

liftalot79 · Sep 17, 2009

I've HAD THE SAME PROBLEM

Reasons could be:
1. Too Much test if I above 500mg/wk of any Ester(Enan, Prop, Sus, etc)
2. Opiates if your taking Vicodin, codiene, anthing of these sorts could suppress it also.

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

thanks for the replies guys.

On the substances:

I don't use ANY opiates at all. Maybe if I had an operation, otherwise, no need.

Test is above 500 right now....BUT, I'd taken a 2 year break from everything, had full libido back, all hormone levels in normal range, and still had this issue. I think it's just apart of me.

I'll try abstaining from everything for a week, that'll be tough, but if it works.....it's worth it.

rocco-x · Sep 17, 2009

even a slightly raised prolactin level will delay your ejaculation.even if you don't show any outward signs of it you still may have raised levels,esp if you're on deca or tren.going thru it now.i can get wood but makin it bust is another story.just when i think it's gonna happen it goes away.my girl don't care tho.just as long as she gets hers.selfish,huh?

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

i get it....after all of these years, i'd like to be able to finish on command......it's something I used to not care about either, but at this point, if I want to flood the hole, i'd like to be able to.

Moen · Sep 17, 2009

Are you on SSRI's/anti-depressants...?
Had lower back surgery?

testoboost · Sep 17, 2009

Papa Van Smack said:
i get it....after all of these years, i'd like to be able to finish on command......it's something I used to not care about either, but at this point, if I want to flood the hole, i'd like to be able to.

New guy to this site but I like to offer this suggestion. I am exactly the same way and as I get older (48) it's getting worse. I am currently on 200mg/wk of test cyp hrt and I supplement it with 500iu's/wk of hcg but I have always been like this. I even took carboline (spelling) to reduce my prolactin levels with no effect. The only thing I have found that truely helps and also makes the orgasm much stronger is Twinlabs Yohimbe Fuel. Start out with one and see how it makes you feel and how it works for you. I usually take it an hour or so before I have sex but it seems to last for a long time. It gives you a better erection and increased sensitivity. Hope this helps.

Pekkerwood · Sep 17, 2009

Papa, let me admit up front that this is going to be no help to you at all and kind of smart alecky. I'm sorry in advance, but I can't get the idea out of my head about "delayed ejaculation". Lets I and my gf have a quick morning tryst and I go to work. I'm now worried my delayed ejaculation may take place in a meeting. I know its stupid but still funny to me. I'm a moron.

BTW, I've only had the problem on large dosages of tren, i.e. 150mg EOD. Large dosages of test does delay a bit, but not in the timeframes your talking about.

Gunsmith · Sep 17, 2009

so lets say you and the lady havesex for 45 min or whatever and you don't get a nut , does it just come (no pun inteded) later , or do you have to masturbate to make it happen?

if its the later it could be a sensitivity issue , i have this problem, but if it the first it could be a prostrate issue.

does it take an overly long time to get you nut when you masturbate? if not it could be a mental issue.

Personaly its nearly impossible for me to rub one out cause i can't relax and focus , but sex generaly isin't an issue unless i'm running a cycle

Kaiser · Sep 17, 2009

Find another doctor, maybe even a specialist. There may be problems with your prostate.

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

Gunsmith said:
so lets say you and the lady havesex for 45 min or whatever and you don't get a nut , does it just come (no pun inteded) later , or do you have to masturbate to make it happen?

if its the later it could be a sensitivity issue , i have this problem, but if it the first it could be a prostrate issue.

does it take an overly long time to get you nut when you masturbate? if not it could be a mental issue.

Personaly its nearly impossible for me to rub one out cause i can't relax and focus , but sex generaly isin't an issue unless i'm running a cycle

okay, i'll get a new doc and see about the prostate, i don't have any other reason to believe i have a prostate issue, i'm only 27......but if that's the ticket to freedom....i'll go for it.

Rubbing one out still takes a while, but w/ 45 minutes of fucking.....i get her rocks off, then rub it out myself.....there've been a few expceptions over the years.....but not enough to be satisfied.

My personal thought is that's it's probably all mental......though i don't know that for sure.

witefall · Sep 17, 2009

Everyone is different, but maybe this will help.

If I were to take higher dosages of test (anything above 1-1.5g test week) and/or other androgens in a combination, I would tend to also take a high dose of Arimidex ED b/c I can't stand to have any bloating.

But, every so often my estro levels tend to crash from the higher Arimidex (which is NOT a good thing for many reasons) and I know it's happened b/c I can't cum or it takes me forever and I get frustrated. I'm still able to get an erection and have the desire for sex b/c of the high test and low estro, but for me, a very low estro causes the same problem you are mentioning. It's almost as if the "nerve endings" are numb and just won't function.

To fix it, I will keep the Arimidex dose the same, but switch to EOD and usually it only takes about 3-4 days for the problem to go away.

And on the other end of the spectrum, If I know both my test and estro levels are high (I'm on high test and I'm bloated), I have a really hard time getting/keeping an erection.

But guess what? I can cum pretty quickly even with a 1/4 to 1/2 erection. And I mean cum really fast. So for me anyway, estro levels effect how quick I cum.

I don't know if you take Arimidex or anything to keep your estro levels from getting too high, but if you do, you may be getting your estro levels too low.

Hope this made sense.

deanabol · Sep 17, 2009

witefall said:
Everyone is different, but maybe this will help.

If I were to take higher dosages of test (anything above 1-1.5g test week) and/or other androgens in a combination, I would tend to also take a high dose of Arimidex ED b/c I can't stand to have any bloating.

But, every so often my estro levels tend to crash from the higher Arimidex (which is NOT a good thing for many reasons) and I know it's happened b/c I can't cum or it takes me forever and I get frustrated. I'm still able to get an erection and have the desire for sex b/c of the high test and low estro, but for me, a very low estro causes the same problem you are mentioning. It's almost as if the "nerve endings" are numb and just won't function.

To fix it, I will keep the Arimidex dose the same, but switch to EOD and usually it only takes about 3-4 days for the problem to go away.

And on the other end of the spectrum, If I know both my test and estro levels are high (I'm on high test and I'm bloated), I have a really hard time getting/keeping an erection.

But guess what? I can cum pretty quickly even with a 1/4 to 1/2 erection. And I mean cum really fast. So for me anyway, estro levels effect how quick I cum.

I don't know if you take Arimidex or anything to keep your estro levels from getting too high, but if you do, you may be getting your estro levels too low.

Hope this made sense.

sorry to hi jack the thread but .. im having this problem at the minute ,libido really low and erections i cant keep but as you say i can blow really quick even when only semi hard
what dose of adex do you use when estro is to high and how long does it usually take to fix ?

ive started adex at .5mg ed ,been on that for 3days now ,any advise appreciated

i did create a thread on this a couple if days ago but you mustnt have seen it

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

Moen said:
Are you on SSRI's/anti-depressants...?
Had lower back surgery?

no to both

PIPEDREAM · Sep 17, 2009

could be mental

I had this happen before. It was a mental block I had and the more I thought about it or tried the worse it became. I could go for hours and nothing. I thought I was going to get a permenant complex. I was not on any cycle, actually 3 months off.
Went and had blood work done and everything was ok. The lady I was dating at the time was great, she never put any pressure on me. She even suggested a having one of her hot girlfriends help us. That was a big mistake as I was really under the spotlight. The girls were exhausted and still nothing. I finally came out of it. I realized I had to much stress on my life.
See a Doctor definetly

Papa Van Smack · Sep 17, 2009

PIPEDREAM said:
I had this happen before. It was a mental block I had and the more I thought about it or tried the worse it became. I could go for hours and nothing. I thought I was going to get a permenant complex. I was not on any cycle, actually 3 months off.
Went and had blood work done and everything was ok. The lady I was dating at the time was great, she never put any pressure on me. She even suggested a having one of her hot girlfriends help us. That was a big mistake as I was really under the spotlight. The girls were exhausted and still nothing. I finally came out of it. I realized I had to much stress on my life.
See a Doctor definetly

how long did it last? how did you finally overcome the issue?

newsbc · Sep 18, 2009

Yohimbine works well for me

I used to find after nut number 3 I couldn't come again but with yohimbine i've managed 6 or 7 in a row. It seems to make penile skin more sensitive and act as a mild stimulant.