Random Bullshit
EDIT: This is really some juvenile stuff compared to some people's real problems. I am however frustrated and need a place to vent...
long story short.. was with a girl for 2 years. split a couple months ago. started dating..
have met many, many girls/women of all ages and types in the past decade or so. i know what i like and don't like. have met a couple recently that were ok but nothing that interesting
met a very shy and sweet girl whose number i had kept (and i hesitated to call) for several months.. athletic, career-oriented, fun to be around, happy, very unique. wont let me pay for much, very sexy/sexual, very interesting, -nice- etc
she has one lazy eye that i think is cute but she has major self esteem issues because of that and past abuse. weird about people and relationships because of that.. was always worried she was coming on to me too strong etc or apologized for dressing a certain way etc and hoped i enjoyed my time... very cute. above all truly a good person to know and a pleasure to be around
we saw each other twice (once a week when we both hand time) and she was very excited/nervous the whole while. texted back and forth about setting up another meeting.. she is a very busy person w work and sport, family friends, etc so it would occasionally take a day or two to get a reply
it's been over a week and i haven't heard from her. last msg i got (after some dirty ones) was that she couldn't wait to see me again. ive tried twice in the past week to get a reply and nothing. i was kind of concerned, now a little frustrated/angry
i dont know if i'm facing a silent form of rejection completely out of nowhere when things were going good, or if maybe something happened in her life. i meet other people and keep myself occupied but i still find myself waiting for a call/text
i dont want to contact any of her friends or anything crazy, but it's frustrating to be left hanging, even if something had happened. i guess not knowing what is what is the hard part
do people ever do stuff like this or is this kind of disappearing act kind of uncommon? am i being rejected? move on?
EDIT: This is really some juvenile stuff compared to some people's real problems. I am however frustrated and need a place to vent...
long story short.. was with a girl for 2 years. split a couple months ago. started dating..
have met many, many girls/women of all ages and types in the past decade or so. i know what i like and don't like. have met a couple recently that were ok but nothing that interesting
met a very shy and sweet girl whose number i had kept (and i hesitated to call) for several months.. athletic, career-oriented, fun to be around, happy, very unique. wont let me pay for much, very sexy/sexual, very interesting, -nice- etc
she has one lazy eye that i think is cute but she has major self esteem issues because of that and past abuse. weird about people and relationships because of that.. was always worried she was coming on to me too strong etc or apologized for dressing a certain way etc and hoped i enjoyed my time... very cute. above all truly a good person to know and a pleasure to be around
we saw each other twice (once a week when we both hand time) and she was very excited/nervous the whole while. texted back and forth about setting up another meeting.. she is a very busy person w work and sport, family friends, etc so it would occasionally take a day or two to get a reply
it's been over a week and i haven't heard from her. last msg i got (after some dirty ones) was that she couldn't wait to see me again. ive tried twice in the past week to get a reply and nothing. i was kind of concerned, now a little frustrated/angry
i dont know if i'm facing a silent form of rejection completely out of nowhere when things were going good, or if maybe something happened in her life. i meet other people and keep myself occupied but i still find myself waiting for a call/text
i dont want to contact any of her friends or anything crazy, but it's frustrating to be left hanging, even if something had happened. i guess not knowing what is what is the hard part
do people ever do stuff like this or is this kind of disappearing act kind of uncommon? am i being rejected? move on?
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