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How did you know when ENOUGH was enough and it was time to get out ans move on?
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I gave it my all for about 5 years before I finally said im moving out...trust me...divorce sucks...its hard....everything is harder...being a single dad is brutally hard....every day....Ive got a girl now that is just incredible but it still doesnt take all the pain away...I still wish I never had to go thru it.Well, i have been saying I'm giving it more time for almost a year now. I want to know i did all i could do to make it work. I just dk when to say f it
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Well, i have been saying I'm giving it more time for almost a year now. I want to know i did all i could do to make it work. I just dk when to say f it
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Been through one divorce, wife #2 we've almost been done a few times, I keep holding on, praying for the best, but if I have to leave ill have no guilt.... Don't force yourself to live with regret, most marriages can pull through anything if both people try.
Theres a key word in all of that...BOTH people have to try
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That is key!! You travel alot for work as I noticed from another thead of yours. Is that a factor? What have you done to work on the relationship?
all i can offer is my experience, first off i divorced and re-married the same woman, now 13 years later and 3 kids, a few months ago i was ready to throw in towel, turned it into trying to re-kindle what we had, and i wouldnt trade it for a second, falling back in love is just as fun as it was the first time around, dont quit brotha, i know a newborn is tuff, the diapers,crying, no time with wifey, pull on my man...ull be more miserable if you dont...let me ask you this, how are you going to feel with another man raising your little girl?
Find a good marriage counselor and get to work! I'm twice divorced, and they're freaking brutal, but i didn't ask for #1 and #2 it was just too bad a situation to have my daughter in, and no way would i choose a woman over my daughter! I had no kids w/ #2, so little bit easier...
Truth is you both have to work on your issues, if you don't, there's a good chance the same personal issues will bite you in the ass in the next relationship.
Hang in there, if you're one of Faith, pray, pray, pray.