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Hey everyone,
I don’t post a lot here, but this has been my home in one way or another, as a lurker or member, since I started bodybuilding 8 years ago.
I not so recently (13 months) ago got a divorce with my wife of 6 years. I know it was not the longest marriage, but we were so in love, I even quit my job, packed two duffle bags and moved to be with her. It was all really great.
Despite her very mean at the end, lying, trying to fuck me out of money and assets.... i feel so UN EASY, ANXIOUS, and SAD... it’s like those feelings are in the back of my head whatever I do and wherever I go. I had no family and not many friends where we lived, so I went home for a bit and stayed with my mom and dad and sister/new born. It was nice to have people who cared about me.
But now I’m back, and all can think abut is good time we had.. it really paralyzes me the anxiety and un easy feelings
I know the things I did to contribute to the divorce and owned up to them, but she never did.
I won’t get into them that’s not the reason for this thread
But anyone go through a similar stage of sadness? I don’t think I’m depressed I just feel un easy and anxious. I have been away from the iron ever since as we used to work out together. And I would just get really upset going back to the gym.
I just started going back this week since moving back, but I joined a different gym so I don’t feel so sad.
How did you guys overcome these feelings? Time? Meeting a new woman? I’m not ready for that yet I don’t think
I don’t post a lot here, but this has been my home in one way or another, as a lurker or member, since I started bodybuilding 8 years ago.
I not so recently (13 months) ago got a divorce with my wife of 6 years. I know it was not the longest marriage, but we were so in love, I even quit my job, packed two duffle bags and moved to be with her. It was all really great.
Despite her very mean at the end, lying, trying to fuck me out of money and assets.... i feel so UN EASY, ANXIOUS, and SAD... it’s like those feelings are in the back of my head whatever I do and wherever I go. I had no family and not many friends where we lived, so I went home for a bit and stayed with my mom and dad and sister/new born. It was nice to have people who cared about me.
But now I’m back, and all can think abut is good time we had.. it really paralyzes me the anxiety and un easy feelings
I know the things I did to contribute to the divorce and owned up to them, but she never did.
I won’t get into them that’s not the reason for this thread
But anyone go through a similar stage of sadness? I don’t think I’m depressed I just feel un easy and anxious. I have been away from the iron ever since as we used to work out together. And I would just get really upset going back to the gym.
I just started going back this week since moving back, but I joined a different gym so I don’t feel so sad.
How did you guys overcome these feelings? Time? Meeting a new woman? I’m not ready for that yet I don’t think