Do ya'll guys wife and gf workout?

[Kag94]

22 yrs of marriage. My wife out eats me and has never worked out.
Just yesterday we went to pick out our new Breasts!!!!
I think she is a little tired of me getting all the attention! lol.

You have big hands

 

[Jacky McSwole]

Its truely a dilema i find that the more a girl works out the less likely she is to do what shes told. Cooking, cleaning, minimal going out wasting time and money, sex on call with a girl who works out alot? Keep dreaming. the really in shape girls are difficult bitches in my experience. Im difficult i cant be with someone else difficult. Luckily my gf works out at home a little but the trick is she has a high metabolism thyroid issue and doesnt eat much. 5'10 125 so she doesnt need to work out much.

 

[nothuman]

BUT...this shit is a double edged sword. Girls UNKNOWINGLY will feel pressure to look good because their dude "looks like a machine." Its just how it is.

So much this. There are girls who have been afraid to take their shirts off in bed because they think I'll be more critical than average guys.

 

[concreter]

You have big hands

You should see my big Toe!!

Yrs ago I had another Delima, this one Major.
My wife wanted me OFF everything even pre workout products after a few steady yrs on. Just tottaly pissed of all the attention I received.

They would much rather have you Fat, Bald and on the Couch.....

Now she is more of a team player and lasts with my photo opp's till late summer...lol

 

[Designbuilt]

Yup both my girl and my wife workout, but not at the same gym...

 

[epoxy]

I got lucky.

My lady was a healthy clean eater and took lots of cardio classes...but wasnt into lifting. Met me and meal prep and all that shit was already easy with her. Then she naturally wanted to lift a little more with me around.

Very easy..

BUT...this shit is a double edged sword. Girls UNKNOWINGLY will feel pressure to look good because their dude "looks like a machine." Its just how it is.

this is true. honestly the better shape i stay in, usually the girl tries to as well. but the more i let myself go, so does she. this is with more than one girl by the way, so i think it goes to show if you're with the right kind of person who gives a crap at all, they'll at least try. i don't care if they really work out as long as they have the genetics or metabolism to stay not fat. but i definitely wouldn't stick around OR start dating someone in the first place they straight up told me "i like cheeseburgers and i've never been to a gym" i'm in my 30s now, still dating girls in their mid to late 20s, mid 20's girls still seem to have pretty good metabolisms and can get by with less, the girls i've seen who are closer to 30 either get fat or realize they gotta do more than sit on the couch eating chips and drinking boxed wine.

 

[little slice]

You should see my big Toe!!

Yrs ago I had another Delima, this one Major.
My wife wanted me OFF everything even pre workout products after a few steady yrs on. Just tottaly pissed of all the attention I received.

They would much rather have you Fat, Bald and on the Couch.....

Now she is more of a team player and lasts with my photo opp's till late summer...lol

they relentlessly hen peck you into changing the fundamental aspects of who you are

then leave you for "not being the man she fell in love with".




it was just a shit test, and you passed by not acquiescing

 

[MightyJohn]

Only dated one chic who didn't go to the gym...she did BJJ, so was still in good shape...also dated My share of figure competitors and don't plan on stopping anytime soon

 

[beastmode121]

I have more things to worry about and focus on than my girl possibly gaining weight in 10 years lol, useless thinking in my opinion. What if she doesnt gain weight. Some guys worry about things that might not happen lol, worst than bitches.

You have a point

 

[G.I.Bro]

I didn't realize slicey hated women and the tenant of marriage so much. Marriage is kind of silly unless you want kids or have kids. Won't argue there.

Slice do you have many steady relationships or just tag someone from a bar here and there when horny?

 

[little slice]

I didn't realize slicey hated women and the tenant of marriage so much. Marriage is kind of silly unless you want kids or have kids. Won't argue there.

Slice do you have many steady relationships or just tag someone from a bar here and there when horny?

I don't hate women.. and I really don't understand why people think that I do.


sounds like laziness to be honest.. it's way easier to say "oh, well you just hate women" rather than interrogating my positions on the matter.


my entire problem - what everything boils down to, is the state's intrusion into our lives.. more specifically, into the institution of marriage.


this revolves primarily around family court and the issues surrounding separation of assets, alimony, and child custody.


the way things are currently structured, women are given IMMENSE power after the wedding vows are exchanged..


it's pretty obvious when the power balance starts to shift.. she'll get fat, more nagging, start withholding sex as a form of coercive punishment, etc.


what changed? she was given immense power by the state.




well, what about men?

I completely agree, men who would do the same thing are absolute shit.

however, again, due to the way society is structured - men studying engineering while women major in art, men tend to still be the breadwinners... so they are not afforded the same power and degree of sympathy that women enjoy when the relationship takes a turn for the worse.

they are the ones paying alimony and child support. they are the ones with something (a LOT) to lose if things go south.

if the man becomes fat, naggy, an asshole, she leaves, and takes loads of his shit with her.


a relevant example however... I know of a couple, the woman is VERY physically limited in what she can do. she can walk, but cant really bend over or carry things.

while her husband is the breadwinner, he has become an absolute fat piece of shit... probably hasn't seen his dick since the turn of the millennium.

she can't afford to leave him, because of her disabilities.



so in essence, people are shit, and government intrusion has allowed them to become even more shit.

women are just given more opportunities to be shit. men would probably be quite similar if they were afforded such plentiful opportunities.

 

[G.I.Bro]

I don't hate women.. and I really don't understand why people think that I do.


sounds like laziness to be honest.. it's way easier to say "oh, well you just hate women" rather than interrogating my positions on the matter.


my entire problem - what everything boils down to, is the state's intrusion into our lives.. more specifically, into the institution of marriage.


this revolves primarily around family court and the issues surrounding separation of assets, alimony, and child custody.


the way things are currently structured, women are given IMMENSE power after the wedding vows are exchanged..


it's pretty obvious when the power balance starts to shift.. she'll get fat, more nagging, start withholding sex as a form of coercive punishment, etc.


what changed? she was given immense power by the state.




well, what about men?

I completely agree, men who would do the same thing are absolute shit.

however, again, due to the way society is structured - men studying engineering while women major in art, men tend to still be the breadwinners... so they are not afforded the same power and degree of sympathy that women enjoy when the relationship takes a turn for the worse.

they are the ones paying alimony and child support. they are the ones with something (a LOT) to lose if things go south.

if the man becomes fat, naggy, an asshole, she leaves, and takes loads of his shit with her.


a relevant example however... I know of a couple, the woman is VERY physically limited in what she can do. she can walk, but cant really bend over or carry things.

while her husband is the breadwinner, he has become an absolute fat piece of shit... probably hasn't seen his dick since the turn of the millennium.

she can't afford to leave him, because of her disabilities.



so in essence, people are shit, and government intrusion has allowed them to become even more shit.

women are just given more opportunities to be shit. men would probably be quite similar if they were afforded such plentiful opportunities.

I don't really disagree with any of that, honestly. I basically agree. Tenant of marriage is kind of a joke these days. I guess your disdain for women's tactics and their manipulation of the system creeps out and appears as a dislike of women in general.

 

[little slice]

I don't really disagree with any of that, honestly. I basically agree. Tenant of marriage is kind of a joke these days. I guess your disdain for women's tactics and their manipulation of the system creeps out and appears as a dislike of women in general.

I can see how that would seem..



truth is, I love women, always have. I just have seen what immense power tends to do to people.



ive always had way more lady friends than guy friends


if only they knew

 

[get it in ya]

I laugh when I see guys getting married in 2 years, or 5. how about 20 maybe? it takes 10 to see the true colors. sorry but most guys are suckers, I will keep what I earned. I have been with my gf for 4 years, great girl, just great all around but if she pressured me with that marriage nonsense it would be over. what changes for the good if you get married? I see no need for it unless you have been together a very long time. I will keep my pension, annuity, roth ira and home. thank you. btw I have no kids, because I am smart

 

[G.I.Bro]

I laugh when I see guys getting married in 2 years, or 5. how about 20 maybe? it takes 10 to see the true colors. sorry but most guys are suckers, I will keep what I earned. I have been with my gf for 4 years, great girl, just great all around but if she pressured me with that marriage nonsense it would be over. what changes for the good if you get married? I see no need for it unless you have been together a very long time. I will keep my pension, annuity, roth ira and home. thank you. btw I have no kids, because I am smart

I agree, I think not only be with someone years, but live together a year or two before making that jump.

And if she'll agree, prenup, always.

 

[get it in ya]

I agree, I think not only be with someone years, but live together a year or two before making that jump.

And if she'll agree, prenup, always.

exactly brother!! I will steal tenny's line. I sleep good at night

 

[XstarchildX]

My last gf didn't really work out at all. In fact, she would get angry about me going to the gym. My now fiance lifts with me and even pushes me during my workouts. She's a military brat so she can really get intense at times. It's awesome!

 

[eastcoasthc]

I love the fact my girl works out - it makes her a happier person and easier to.live with.
However -I'M don't care for Workin out with her as it messes up my focus and she tries to talk to me so that's out! Lol

 

[jeetsun7]

they relentlessly hen peck you into changing the fundamental aspects of who you are

then leave you for "not being the man she fell in love with".




it was just a shit test, and you passed by not acquiescing

So much truth here.

So much hypocrisy there it blows my fucking mind.

 

[MightyJohn]

I laugh when I see guys getting married in 2 years, or 5. how about 20 maybe? it takes 10 to see the true colors. sorry but most guys are suckers, I will keep what I earned. I have been with my gf for 4 years, great girl, just great all around but if she pressured me with that marriage nonsense it would be over. what changes for the good if you get married? I see no need for it unless you have been together a very long time. I will keep my pension, annuity, roth ira and home. thank you. btw I have no kids, because I am smart

I had one like that years back...good all around...she pushed marriage, we split up...I should've married her(she's a bank VP), if We divorced I could've taken 1/2 of hers LOL