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I never lied about my weight. But sometimes I lie about my height. I'm 6'1" but sometimes tell people I'm 6'2". No ever ever calls me out. But please, ...don't tell anyone.
Sounds great. You have a link to it?Never. If I don't want to answer, I simply won't. I owe no one anything nor do I weigh their opinion of me over my own personal integrity (which I owe to myself). It's equivalent to kneeling and begging IMO which is why we all know it feels like shit and lowers us. I figure at this point I'm preserving my legacy and honor over a lifetime - being able to look myself in the eye knowing I lived and will die well is code and all that matters.
Buddy of mine calls it "dying well" and has a lecture he gives on it to certain groups. An abbreviated version is still on YouTube maybe. Words, deeds, and actions over a lifetime align via a self determined and principled life.
Maybe some old(er) man wisdom in this that's helpful to others. Goes way beyond physical and is all about forging character. My 2 cents but this shit matters. BTW this tends to make those around you better as well.