Do you or did you play "games" with women ?

raw33man · May 17, 2012

I know some of you guys are older and have GFs or are married but when you met your girl, did you play games with her to get her ?

did you in general play games with girls ?

I know older women are different and aren't into games as much but I seriously think playing the game the correct way does help a lot!

BOOMSHAKER · May 17, 2012

I never considered it "GAMES". I considered it "romancing" the woman I wanted to be mine. Then again I am an old school kind of guy and still am. I still open the door and pull out the chair for my wife when we're out in public. Help her take off and put on her coat. And a few other things that are what a man should do.

anthrogeekuconn · May 18, 2012

Games are for boys and girls. If you want a real woman, be a man and don't play "games" like boys.

AlphaMaleDawg · May 19, 2012

depends how you define "playing games." For women, playing games consists of leading a guy on or using them for certain things. I think all guys fall into this trap at first but that is how you learn. The unfortunate part is most guys don't learn :banghead:

Now this might be controversial to some...

Yes I guess I do what you would consider "playing games." I have faked romantic interest and pretend to be boyfriend material because I want to get laid. If a guy bangs a fat chick, he laughs about it years later wondering what the hell he was thinking. I have a talent in the sense I am very good with words and humor, which makes me very good in job interviews or date situations. I use this to my advantage.

Do I feel bad? Not really to be honest. I think women completely overrate sex in general like sleeping with someone with scar them for life. It's not like these girls don't play games with guys. They play games even more so than we do. It's all one big battlefield out there when it comes to the dating scene. Nothing is really transparent. Everyone bullshits a little bit and everyone has an agenda. If you are "too nice", you will get walked all over by most women. Now of course being nice and having manners are two entirely separate things. I am a very polite person and will also open doors for women and let them out of the elevator first.

Now I will say I have a girlfriend now so I have toned it down. Honestly I have grown tired of the whole "game" or the "chase" if you will. I've had so many fun nights out at this point that I can safely say I have had the kind of social life most people would dream of having. I am at peace with that.

My brutal honesty

Aliendogstar · May 19, 2012

Totally did. If you have a conscience, you will feel bad about it later. Ok...maybe not that bad. You also need to realize that women can be players too.

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ajdonutz · May 19, 2012

Aliendogstar said:
Totally did. If you have a conscience, you will feel bad about it later. Ok...maybe not that bad. You also need to realize that women can be players too.

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Good thing i dont have this "conscience" you speak of... ;D

triathloncoach · May 19, 2012

Lying significantly expands your options. And it's no game.

tenny · May 19, 2012

AlphaMaleDawg said:
depends how you define "playing games." For women, playing games consists of leading a guy on or using them for certain things. I think all guys fall into this trap at first but that is how you learn. The unfortunate part is most guys don't learn :banghead:

Now this might be controversial to some...

Yes I guess I do what you would consider "playing games." I have faked romantic interest and pretend to be boyfriend material because I want to get laid. If a guy bangs a fat chick, he laughs about it years later wondering what the hell he was thinking. I have a talent in the sense I am very good with words and humor, which makes me very good in job interviews or date situations. I use this to my advantage.

Do I feel bad? Not really to be honest. I think women completely overrate sex in general like sleeping with someone with scar them for life. It's not like these girls don't play games with guys. They play games even more so than we do. It's all one big battlefield out there when it comes to the dating scene. Nothing is really transparent. Everyone bullshits a little bit and everyone has an agenda. If you are "too nice", you will get walked all over by most women. Now of course being nice and having manners are two entirely separate things. I am a very polite person and will also open doors for women and let them out of the elevator first.

Now I will say I have a girlfriend now so I have toned it down. Honestly I have grown tired of the whole "game" or the "chase" if you will. I've had so many fun nights out at this point that I can safely say I have had the kind of social life most people would dream of having. I am at peace with that.

My brutal honesty

lol....whats so "brutal" about that????

sounds like Dr. Seuss book,

until you have been MARRIED!!!!!??....
you know nothing about games.

just sayin

AlphaMaleDawg · May 19, 2012

tenny said:
lol....whats so "brutal" about that????

sounds like Dr. Seuss book,

until you have been MARRIED!!!!!??....
you know nothing about games.

just sayin

I read it again and it didn't sound as bad as I thought it would when typing it

Marriage is a whole different set of games. It's not even the same sport as being single and playing games. Not that I have ever been married or anything

raw33man · May 23, 2012

I'm dating this one girl, I went to bed with her, we could have had sex but I told her it's too early... I told her the same the second time too

so I kind of played hard, is that good or what ? I think she likes me even more now LOL

I strongly believe in games, no matter how old you are ! but I don't believe in the game that teenagers play, they are just stupid

jt4330 · May 24, 2012

raw33man said:
I'm dating this one girl, I went to bed with her, we could have had sex but I told her it's too early... I told her the same the second time too

so I kind of played hard, is that good or what ? I think she likes me even more now LOL

I strongly believe in games, no matter how old you are ! but I don't believe in the game that teenagers play, they are just stupid

strike 3 and she's going to chalk it up as you being gay.

raw33man · May 24, 2012

jt4330 said:
strike 3 and she's going to chalk it up as you being gay.

3 coming soon, I'm gonna do it ! insert the mushroomtip dvd inside her DVD player

thatbloke · May 29, 2012

i like to play games at raves or dance events

its either 'how many phone numbers can i get' or 'how many girls can i get to wanna come home with me'

i dunno why i do it, i never end up calling any of them, or i end up going toilet/for a drink and never come back to them

thy theory is im just to off chops, and music sounds amazing

but in reality wen i did go for girls before having a misses, id usually invite them over mine for a movie, and tell them we can watch the movie in my room, but the only issue is my TV isnt working, so we might need to find something else to do in my room

'

worked every time

that and flexing my muscles LOL

AlphaMaleDawg · Jun 25, 2012

raw33man said:
I'm dating this one girl, I went to bed with her, we could have had sex but I told her it's too early... I told her the same the second time too

so I kind of played hard, is that good or what ? I think she likes me even more now LOL

I strongly believe in games, no matter how old you are ! but I don't believe in the game that teenagers play, they are just stupid

You fucked up twice. Please tell me you aren't this silly rawman...please? Lol if you really did turn sex down twice, I'd be happy to explain why what you did is a huge mistake. Let me know pal

GGGGGGG-UNIT · Jul 31, 2012

Like the other guy said, not games, romancing, girls want to be put through loops, an obstacle course if you will. And to be honest, in other words, it all comes down to if you are interesting or not. If you are just straight forward, an easy to crack safe, wear your heart on your sleeve, what you se is what you get type of guy, and throw it all out there after the first couple of dates, what kind of fun is that?? Just dont be in a rush. And oh yeah, if you actually like here, dont try and sleep with her!!!! Even if you suceed, fucking her after a couple weeks of knowing her throws out any time of built up suspense or mystery, its like okay, whats next? Been around the block a couple times, just giving my 0.02.

infinitifxs · Jul 31, 2012

Not proud to admit it but I have paid enough games in the past 5 years for a life time maybe even could of had my own Olympic games.... I played the kid games..... The sneaking around games.... The I'm "working" games..... When it all comes down to it I look back and go ok wow..... I had a really hot gf that was smart and "kinda fun" I'm just more wild then her and a very loving person but always making time for other shit except for me so I started running around meeting other girls installing false hope for them just to sleep with them then ya find yourself getting attached And it's one big mess..... If ya guys have been around the thread long enough you can search my old handle BreitlingGT and you'll be pleasantly shocked at what you find.... But in conclusion games or the game is a blast but unfortunately every dog has their day..... I've had mine several times I quit the game and hung my jersey up...... Kept the awesome pornofied chick I have been with since 09 and invested in one nice piece instead of 5 at once..... Just my story.... And I'm sticking to it... lol

Performance Based · Aug 4, 2012

AlphaMaleDawg said:
You fucked up twice. Please tell me you aren't this silly rawman...please? Lol if you really did turn sex down twice, I'd be happy to explain why what you did is a huge mistake. Let me know pal

If not explain for me lol, just met an amazing new girl. Only been on two dates, I see her again Monday and she already said she is going to be staying over again...

I notice that when I sleep with a girl too early I have two issues

1) I loose interest if I sleep with them too early
2) I worry so much about performance it spoils it for both of us

Gators · Aug 4, 2012

The desire to play 'games' fades as one gets older, wiser, and hopefully more mature. At 46 i do not have the tolerance for the BS, and sex w/out a strong emotional bond just doesn't do what it used to do. Not that i didn't do some sport f'n this current single period...

AlphaMaleDawg · Aug 8, 2012

PMCCHRIS said:
If not explain for me lol, just met an amazing new girl. Only been on two dates, I see her again Monday and she already said she is going to be staying over again...

I notice that when I sleep with a girl too early I have two issues

1) I loose interest if I sleep with them too early
2) I worry so much about performance it spoils it for both of us

See, it's not up to you how long she takes to sleep with you. If she does the first time you meet, her inclination to cheat will be higher and it also shows she has had numerous one night stands in the past. The longer she chooses to take, the more "girlfriend material" she is. I always try to push girls to have sex as soon as possible. The ones that hold out, are the ones I would trust better and have likely had less sexual partners in the past. You are right about losing interest in them too early after sleeping with them right away. Just another reason why to find someone else if you are looking for a relationship.