The way I view it, I'm young and have a lot of life left to live. I don't want to die and look back at my life with regret. I know for sure that I'll have a free meal on my birthday. Otherwise, I only will if I know that I won't have the opportunity to again and/or it isn't going to compromise my goals. For example; If my grandmother bakes a cake for christmas, I might have a slice, because I don't know how many more Christmases I have with her. For my college sendoff, my family and I went out to a steakhouse. You only get to have those memories once, just ensure it's done responsibly