First date after my engagement over....

[BALDNAZI]

Well tonight was the night my boys. I actually went on a lunch date last week with a old coworker, hot little light skinned trinidadian girl, 5'2" 100 lbs, but nothing happened "yet" she wants me to rebound before she sticks her ass in my face,her exact words,lol.

Tonight I had a date with real pretty Puerto Rican/ Italian girl (yes, another Puerto Rican like my ex) that my friend's girl hooked me up with,alittle thicker then Im used to about 5'4" and 140, big ass but sexy. We had a great time at a little Italian cafe, talking and flirting until the place closed. We leave, and I know its time for a move(mind you its been close to 3 years since I have been with another girl besides my ex) so I open the door for her to my truck and as she gets in, boom, I give her a nice slow kiss. Pheeew, I still got it,lol. I get in my side, sit down and here we go...non stop making out session. It was great. I take her home and we sit for another 1 1/2 hours in front of her house going at it. The girl was loving me, it felt like old times when I was a whore and girls bent over at my command,haha. I just got in now and its almost 4 oclock, good times for me. It will only be another date or two before this girl gets the ride of her fucking life.

Why am I telling you this? Because Im happy that I was able to prove to myself I still got the touch. I was honestly nervous, like I had lost it or something,whats it going to be like?, but now I know that I will truly be able to move on and date at will. Dating again sucks in a way because of the show we must all put on, but its also fun and Im free to do as I please. This is my therapy. Just thought I would share, so guys in a similar situation just go out there and get the first one out of the way, it will flow like butter after that.....

 

[sup]

grats man!

I know the feeling when I got divorced.. It sucked ass but defiantly worth it as I traded up to a smoking hottie

 

[thebrick]

I know the feeling too. I was married 17 years, then thrown back into the dating scene. It felt was weird at first, but then I had a blast. I should thank my ex. I had a great time and eventually met and married one hot latin momma.

Sounds like you are doing just fine!

 

[JustWannaBeHuge]

I had a great time and eventually met and married one hot latin momma.

man, i love the latin women.... hey BN, 5'4 140, with a big ass? damn, I need to move to NY. Not enough latin women where I am lol.

dating is fun, i'll say that! :de:il-smi

 

[buffbabeca]

Cant say i agree with your "therapy" but as long as you are happy sweetie that is ok..... just please be honest with the women...... not fair to lead anything on that isnt there... but if she is up for the ride of her life... have it lol

on a side note.. isnt that first girl the trini the one that came into your parents shop or something and asked about you awhile back??????????

 

[muscledoc1]

Hey bro,good for you my man but honestly i personally think that you shouldnt jump int anyhthing serious yet(not saying you are,im sure you just wanna have fun and enjoy right now)-but the pain/thoughts of your past relationship are still there so at times you might be more emotional than normal(which is very natural)-im sure you are not sitting there and thinking about it constantly,but my point is the only one thing that will let that part of your life go (no matter what happiness and fun you find with whoever you are with)-IS TIME!,so just keep yourself in prespective and down to earth but more important JUST KNOW THAT RIGHT NOW ITS ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN MY FRIEND.

P.S-i also saw the youtube link-and i have to say that i am so shocked and very very sad seeing it-not sure if you are related but i am VERY VERY SORRY!!. muscledoc.

 

[BALDNAZI]

Dont worry

No need to worry guys, I am not getting attached to anyone right now. This is MY time, noone elses. Like I stated previously, my #1 focus is getting financialy stable. Thats it, no ifs ands or buts.

The dating is therapy like I said. Women please me, I enjoy their company, conversation, and just the way about them. Im a hard fuck, but women bring me down to earth, my calmer sensitive side appears,and I need that balance.

Buffbabe the trini is a different girl, the Afghani/Barbados girl is officialy out of the loop. She told me Thursday that she is no longer interested and that I should have left my girl sooner,LOL. Thats great, her true colors appeared. She wanted to be a homewrecker but now that Im free she dont want me anymore? Needless to say she got the "go fuck yourself you fucking cunt" treatment, I have no patience for a demon whore like this. Its a shame too, cause that was truly a fine piece that I would have loved to add to my stable,oh well.

So, thats the deal. I am out there having fun at night, but my days are focused on business, and thats all that really matters. Life is good again....

Question is what the hell do I do with the ring????



p.s. Muscledoc, Channon and Christopher are not related to me, but their blood is my blood and they must never be forgotten.Thank you for watching the clip.

 

[buffbabeca]

No need to worry guys, I am not getting attached to anyone right now. This is MY time, noone elses. Like I stated previously, my #1 focus is getting financialy stable. Thats it, no ifs ands or buts.

The dating is therapy like I said. Women please me, I enjoy their company, conversation, and just the way about them. Im a hard fuck, but women bring me down to earth, my calmer sensitive side appears,and I need that balance.

Buffbabe the trini is a different girl, the Afghani/Barbados girl is officialy out of the loop. She told me Thursday that she is no longer interested and that I should have left my girl sooner,LOL. Thats great, her true colors appeared. She wanted to be a homewrecker but now that Im free she dont want me anymore? Needless to say she got the "go fuck yourself you fucking cunt" treatment, I have no patience for a demon whore like this. Its a shame too, cause that was truly a fine piece that I would have loved to add to my stable,oh well.

So, thats the deal. I am out there having fun at night, but my days are focused on business, and thats all that really matters. Life is good again....

Question is what the hell do I do with the ring????



p.s. Muscledoc, Channon and Christopher are not related to me, but their blood is my blood and they must never be forgotten.Thank you for watching the clip.

whatever makes u happy hon.. and as for the ring.... take it to a jewelers and see if they can sell it for you on consignment..... is it paid for??? do u have the appraisal papers???

 

[bellicose]

Question is what the hell do I do with the ring????

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keep it, but never tell anyone about it!!! It may save you alot of money in the future

 

[buffbabeca]

keep it, but never tell anyone about it!!! It may save you alot of money in the future

no no no dont do that..

do NOT sell it on ebay.... either consignment with a jeweler.. u will a little commission but worth it... OR have the diamond taken out and ditch the setting and have a ring made for YOURSELF

 

[maldorf]

no no no dont do that..

do NOT sell it on ebay.... either consignment with a jeweler.. u will a little commission but worth it... OR have the diamond taken out and ditch the setting and have a ring made for YOURSELF

My ex wife cheated on me and I demanded to get the wedding/engagement ring back as part of the divorce. When I remarried I took the ring back to the store I bought it at and they let me trade it in for what I paid for it, as long as I spent 2x the value. Needless to say my wife now walks around with a much bigger diamond! Maybe you can do something like that someday. Did you keep the receipt I hope?

 

[ScorpioGirl]

I would be careful with the "whatever makes you happy" notion. You can also lose yourself very easily while trying to use whatever to make you happy at the moment with little thought of the future consequences.

Just a thought.

 

[oldfella]

BN, I am happy for you bro, really. Just be yourself and have some fun. I too went out with a latina when I was younger, man they are hot! Just watch out for the jealous streak in them. piss em off and your life can be hell. I agree with what buff says, be up front with them and let them know that this is for fun not for keeps! Hell you'll have a Harem in no time. You still need to send devil woman down here bro ! As long as you are happy that makes me smile brother. Go for it but be careful. Your emotions are still vulnerable right now whether you think so or not. As for the ring, not sure on that one, maybe hang on to it but I would'nt give it to anyone else in the future, get a new one if that comes up. Get the diamond set into a ring for yourself maybe or a charm for the gold chain you pimp!!! . So you see your not that old yet!!

 

[nosmas]

Just be carefull BN. Get back out there, but you are surly going through a rebound faze right now. Like always, Lindsay and I wish you nothing but the best in your life and we are here for you always. Have FUN BUDDY!

nosmas and hngry

 

[IronMike]

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... and here I was having a very fucking ordinary kind of day, not helped by domestic issues with my own better half, and I read this... thanks a million BN. This truly brought a smile to my face and I bet all your lifts go up by half a plate in the gym this week on the back of the new confidence!

Good to hear things are looking up buddy. IronMike

 

[EVERLAST]

Auditions...

BN

Look to go through several candidates in the "auditions" phase of the program. I've been single 5 1/2 years now and met Sassy about 9 months ago. Prior to that it was a long string of wanna-be wives. Watch out for that profile. Into the money potential, assets and potential assets. Some women, and I guess some men are turned on by money. Look for something real.
You'll know when you're ready. And then you'll look up and they're she'll be.
But for now just have fun and watch your ass.
Older you get the more they want you.

EVERLAST

 

[IronMike]

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Oh and BN, I too am now in the "recently single" boat as of a week and a half ago, so I'll see if I can relay a similar positive story of one man's hope in the big city soon.

Thanks again for the uplifting read mate - really did bring a smile to my face! IronMike