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It's a red flag for sure but I have to say, she's in a rough spot. If she respects your relationship, she will curb her instincts and draw boundaries. However, you also have to understand her psyche right now. They have a kid together. I'm sure she's afraid that he will either hurt/kill himself or end up in jail due to his addiction which will affect her daughter. So she's probably still in the nurturing mode as a mother, both towards him and her daughter. Nothing wrong with that... but as others have suggested, you need to talk to her about it and let her know this is stressing your relationship and it may not be the best time for you guys to be together if she can't draw the boundaries that are necessary. Hope it works out for you brother.