GF's Libido

[BushMan]

I wasn't entirely sure where to put this but because it's about my GF i'd assume here. I have a new concern about my GF's libido. Lately my gf has had a HUGE loss of libido. It's actually caused a few fights because she feels like she is "broken". Her loss of libido sucks but it's not a huge deal to me and the most important thing to me is I want her to be happy. She is on the pill and that might be causing it (she refuses to go off it) but she used to have a healthy libido while on it. My question is, is there anything legal (she is a competitive athlete that can get drug tested) she can take to bring her libido back? Like tribulus or yohimbe or anything of that sort?

Sometimes I wonder if it's me. She always says it's not but I still wonder

Any help would be appreciated!

 

[BushMan]

Guess I should mention, she is 21.. used to be on a different pill but it killed her libido SO bad. She changed to the one she is on now and it came back for awhile but now it is gone again...

Also researched Lyriana. anyone know anything about it?

 

[GetYucked]

It's more than likely the pill. Just went through same thing with mine, but no fights. She decided to come off the pill two weeks ago and we will just use other forms of prevention. Her libido has picked up and boy am I happy cause I'm on cycle right now.

 

[tenny]

well.......worst case?????......she getting her "libido" takin care of elsewhere.


if you TRUELY believe thats NOT the case???.....AND YOU LOVE HER????
then deal with it......and be there for her

tell her she is not "broken"
tell her how much you love her..
tell her how much she means to you..
tell her that YOU are nothing without her..
tell her, she is your EVERYTHING..
and tell her how beautiful she is to you.....inside and out

just love her

it easy bro

 

[anthrogeekuconn]

well.......worst case?????......she getting her "libido" takin care of elsewhere.


if you TRUELY believe thats NOT the case???.....AND YOU LOVE HER????
then deal with it......and be there for her

tell her she is not "broken"
tell her how much you love her..
tell her how much she means to you..
tell her that YOU are nothing without her..
tell her, she is your EVERYTHING..
and tell her how beautiful she is to you.....inside and out

just love her

it easy bro

Best reply EVER to this type of question!
She can also try PT-141. But most importantly follow Tenny's advice, seems like she may have some emotional issues that need to be addressed, make sure you are there to support her! This is often a common problem with women who have experienced some type of sexual trauma or abuse.

 

[BushMan]

well.......worst case?????......she getting her "libido" takin care of elsewhere.


if you TRUELY believe thats NOT the case???.....AND YOU LOVE HER????
then deal with it......and be there for her

tell her she is not "broken"
tell her how much you love her..
tell her how much she means to you..
tell her that YOU are nothing without her..
tell her, she is your EVERYTHING..
and tell her how beautiful she is to you.....inside and out

just love her

it easy bro

I know she isn't cheating on me. She is with me almost all the time besides when she is at swim practice.

I have been working on her emotional health. Telling her she is beautiful and the works like you suggested. I think it is the pill. She used to be as horny as a guy haha but she won't go off it because it helps her periods.

We'll figure something out i was just wondering if anyone knew of any form of supplement that may work

 

[Barbie81]

Hey
Ive tried different pills for my Periods in the past... the last being the dreaded coil!! I was a changed person... fucked my emotions up a treat :che:ky-sm
In the end I just come off everything.. no amount of yoga or happy thoughts could snap me out of the awful feeling i felt most of the time.. it made me feel disgusting.
soon as I stopped, back popped the old me (maybe a little feirce from time to time) and now.... well Me an Elvia are sittin on a time bomb haha...
No we're just carefull ... kind of
x

 

[7train]

Have her switch pills asap..without a doubt whats killing it

 

[SugarFree]

Doesnt sound like this has been an ongoing long problem but that is young to be starting already. I would definitely think its a medication that she's taking thats causing it. Whether that or something else I think she needs to consult a doctor.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

At 21 she should be having a sex drive bigger than triathloncoach! There is something more to it then just a pill. I would NOT put her on anything else right now. She needs to speak to her primary physician and see if there is another root cause to this. Her primary can then refer her out to other specialists if neccesary.

Try not to put her on anything else until she seeks some good medical advice for now. Good luck brother.

 

[BigChef]

well.......worst case?????......she getting her "libido" takin care of elsewhere.


if you TRUELY believe thats NOT the case???.....AND YOU LOVE HER????
then deal with it......and be there for her

tell her she is not "broken"
tell her how much you love her..
tell her how much she means to you..
tell her that YOU are nothing without her..
tell her, she is your EVERYTHING..
and tell her how beautiful she is to you.....inside and out

just love her

it easy bro

Tenny will you marry me? No homo!

 

[bigboy05]

I think a lot of couples go through this at some point. My wife and I went through a similar situation...thankfully it worked itself out. There are a lot of factors that affect libido. Stress, money, work, etc. I know when we are stressed out sex takes a back seat. It doesn't happen to just women. I've felt the same way...even on cycle...I just don't have the energy. Like others have said..a strong, loving relationship is the most important thing. Support each other and do your best to understand one another. Maybe try getting away for the weekend..away from everyday life. Hope some of this helps...sorry I can't help you with the pill questions.

 

[SugarFree]

As someone that is married to someone that takes meds that causes libido problems all I can say is RUN..... Get out while you can. This sucks, actually I wish it sucked I dont even get that. RUN RUN RUN

 

[lntense]

More than likely the birthcontrol. Ive gone through this with my girlfriend as well. She usually still took care of me tho


My gf is on cymbalta+birth control and they both kill libido

 

[Barbie81]

As someone that is married to someone that takes meds that causes libido problems all I can say is RUN..... Get out while you can. This sucks, actually I wish it sucked I dont even get that. RUN RUN RUN

Tad extreme

 

[jack of all]

Its the pill. My wife went through years of this and finally decided no pill was best. They all made her gain weight and totally lose her libido. We used the pull and pray method for 17 years. It works well.

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[Goody]

As someone that is married to someone that takes meds that causes libido problems all I can say is RUN..... Get out while you can. This sucks, actually I wish it sucked I dont even get that. RUN RUN RUN

Been there bro....dealt with all that stuff for 6-7 years...did all the stuff in Teenys post day in, day out...in the end she just refused to seek out help on her end...it just wasnt important to her...I was in my late 20's early 30's getting laid once every month or two if I was lucky...living hell...ended it with her a year ago...never been happier. I think sexual compatibility is highly under rated for whatever reason...

 

[KRAFTHAUS]

well.......worst case?????......she getting her "libido" takin care of elsewhere.


if you TRUELY believe thats NOT the case???.....AND YOU LOVE HER????
then deal with it......and be there for her

tell her she is not "broken"
tell her how much you love her..
tell her how much she means to you..
tell her that YOU are nothing without her..
tell her, she is your EVERYTHING..
and tell her how beautiful she is to you.....inside and out

just love her

it easy bro

This!

Best thing to do is assure her it is NOT bothering you.. I personally have never had any loss of libido due to my BC, maybe try other alternatives? I now get mine in a shot (mostly because I am forgetful) and have not had any critically up/down emotions. I'm not sure if they still do the patch but I think she could try that too. Best of luck to you both

 

[monkeybizniz1]

I had a similar issue from antidepressants and winny worked wonders for me. I'd be curious to know if tribulus would work. I took 20mg or whinny a day and started noticing increased hair growth so I switched to var which didn't have the same effects for me.

 

[cobra67]

Wow. I thought I was the only one dealing with this....
My wife. (33) lost her l libido about 8 years ago Her gyno made her switch bc pills and still nothing. Its about twice a year for me.... I tryed to talk to her and she never has the desire.
she Tryed counseling and that was woking great till she stopped going.
My wifes problem is emotional...good luck......
50 shades of gray was a temporary fix lol. But she read all 3 books in like 2 weeks.