Bro, whatever anyone tells you on here, you refute.
So do you want advice, or not?
You obviosuly have everything handled and under control from your posts, so why did you bother asking for advice?
No one has this happen to them, and accepted it, so you're not going to hear anyone tell you this sort of thing is cool.
It just sounds like you don't want to believe this chick could be telling you any BS, that's why I called you naive.
Yes............ you, my friend, are naive.
Now THAT is fact.
From the exes you've described, you need to start learning how to pick women a little better......
2 rights don't make a wrong, but if you know there is no future with this girl and accept that you she may or may not be lying to you everytime she opens her mouth, then as Sadie so eloquently put it "Hit it and Quit it".