Girls with sugar daddy's

[EasyEJL]

If she introduces me to him shes afraid he will take the car back and give her no more money but shes fine with me putting pics of me and her up on my myspace knowing that he will eventually see the pics.

Your profile says you are 31, but from what I'm hearing its hard to believe

 

[massnup]

Your profile says you are 31, but from what I'm hearing its hard to believe

I am 31, why do you say that?

 

[cpesloco]

this is a tough call because i have seen it go both ways. some sexually and some wishing it would be sexually, and others just because some people like to be dominated and needed.

My sister has a couple sugar daddy's. One is like 70 and he probably gives her the most and all she does is go out to dinner with him and hang out when he is in town. nothing sexual.

she has another around 50's that likes to be dominated and treated like shit when he is in town.

some other ones too. anyway what i am saying its not always sexual but that's mainly with the older guys.

the younger ones there is more chance of some sex.

maybe the difference is my sister is straight up with these guys and tells them what she wants, she is not a bullshitter. it works for her, but then again she lives a single life.

either way you need to stay emotional unattached for now.

 

[massnup]

this is a tough call because i have seen it go both ways. some sexually and some wishing it would be sexually, and others just because some people like to be dominated and needed.

My sister has a couple sugar daddy's. One is like 70 and he probably gives her the most and all she does is go out to dinner with him and hang out when he is in town. nothing sexual.

she has another around 50's that likes to be dominated and treated like shit when he is in town.

some other ones too. anyway what i am saying its not always sexual but that's mainly with the older guys.

the younger ones there is more chance of some sex.

maybe the difference is my sister is straight up with these guys and tells them what she wants, she is not a bullshitter. it works for her, but then again she lives a single life.

either way you need to stay emotional unattached for now.

She says hes just wishing and hoping that she she will fall in love with him and be with him if he keeps giving her money when she needs it but i really don't know whats going on at this point, I'm still trying to find my way through all the smoke in this situation. Also, she is a bitch to him.

 

[Nikopapp]

Dude, face the truth.

Your girl is a high paid escort, or in layman's terms, a PROSTITUTE.

If you're cool with that, then fine.

But where do you go from here, are you willing to replace the cash she gets every month from her employer?

Because she will get it from someone if you don't.

You are really naive bro, you gotta wisen up now or you're going to have some serious heartache and mistakes in life.

Best of luck to you.

 

[sadie]

Anyone ever have to deal with this? I have been dating a girl that has one of these for about 3 months now, she only has to hangout with him once every 5 weeks or so to get money to pay her and her moms rent, utilities etc and that totals approx 2,500 per month and he gives her 400 every sunday on top of that. She swears up and dwon that nothing has ever happened between them, he is 45 and she just turned 26. He lives 4 hours away and shes with me every nite. He has bought her a new 30,000 dollar car also, she says that once she gets a job that she will tell him that she doesn't need him anymore but she evidently doesn't want to do that or give this deal up and its been going on for a little over a year now she says. He probably has 150,000 or so invested in her.

correct me if im wrong.. but im pretty sure that is the definition of an escort.. why are you even dealing with this girl? when he/she tires of the situation you KNOW you are going to end up supplementing her income.. girls that take money like that are going to be high maintenance in the long run...

 

[freaktt]

wish i had a sugar moma

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

If she introduces me to him shes afraid he will take the car back and give her no more money but shes fine with me putting pics of me and her up on my myspace knowing that he will eventually see the pics.

Q:Bro, do you know why she doesn't care if you put the two of your pics up online for the world to see??

A: The other guy knows about you already, and as long as she is giving him some (****) he could care less about you or that the two of you have a relationship going.

There are plenty of guys out there with cash who are willing to do shit like this cause they either are ugly or fat or have a small weener and feel that if they give the chic tons of cash and gifts she won't notice any of these faults. And for this reason "he don't care about you". He is getting his on the side and is willing to pay for it. Your "girlfriend" will always be seeing him behind your back no matter what she tells you!

(now ask Sadie if she has any girlfriends she could hook you up with! j/k)

 

[massnup]

Q:Bro, do you know why she doesn't care if you put the two of your pics up online for the world to see??

A: The other guy knows about you already, and as long as she is giving him some (****) he could care less about you or that the two of you have a relationship going.

There are plenty of guys out there with cash who are willing to do shit like this cause they either are ugly or fat or have a small weener and feel that if they give the chic tons of cash and gifts she won't notice any of these faults. And for this reason "he don't care about you". He is getting his on the side and is willing to pay for it. Your "girlfriend" will always be seeing him behind your back no matter what she tells you!

(now ask Sadie if she has any girlfriends she could hook you up with! j/k)

I will know when she does because she has to drive 4 hours to go see him. He has gotten word that she has a bf but he doesn't want to believe it.

 

[tenny]

wish i had a sugar moma

hell ya

 

[awelch]

Well lets say she's telling the truth (which she probably isn't). That would mean this guy she's seeing had just given her about $150,000 for basically nothing. If that's the case he obviously has some screws loose and for her to just end it all of a sudden after accepting all his cash probably won't go down too well... So whether she's telling the truth or not I think you've found yourself in a bad situation.

 

[7_Deadly_Sins]

I, personally, don't have an ounce of respect for any girl that does that. I highly doubt a guy in that position will be paying for just conversation. I know a few girls like that, and there always seems to be a catch.

Really sorry for your situation. Hope she comes to her senses soon.

You'd be suprised...my fiances mother kinda does this...she'll meet guys(they come up to her etc) and they offer to buy her stuff and all that.
She tells them to fuck off but they never do...they're old and have small hope that they'll get with her...finally she just gets tired of it and asks them for stuff until they stop.
And guess what, they never kiss or anything, just talk and hang out.

 

[CHUCK U. FARLEY]

I've dated girls like this and don't care how fuc#king hot they are, they're

useless parasites. There are a lot better girls out there. Guaranteed your girl

has given this guy a little taste to keep him on the hook. She doesn't work

huh? You wanna marry a chick that doesn't work? Come on bro, whats really going

on. Your girl sniffin candy or what? Most girls I know doing this have some sort

of dependency problem.

 

[Designbuilt]

I will know when she does because she has to drive 4 hours to go see him. He has gotten word that she has a bf but he doesn't want to believe it.

I was going to stay out of this already, but I just had to ask.. WHAT?!?!

So she is going to see him? That changes everything, besides, why in the hell would he be looking at your myspace page anyway? Kick his ass at recess and take his lunch money while you're at it.

Last thing, he's gotten word about you and the not believeing it part, why should he, if she keeps going to him?

I did this shit when I was a kid, I had a girl who would come over, just open my damn door and start humping me, she had a boyfriend, ring all that stuff, and just came to have sex, once a month or so, then she would leave, I didn't care either way.

Shit I was 20 and single, why would I care? I never gave her shit though, I think 1/2 a cigarette, that's about it.

 

[HawaiiMuscle]

I was going to stay out of this already, but I just had to ask.. WHAT?!?!

So she is going to see him? That changes everything, besides, why in the hell would he be looking at your myspace page anyway? Kick his ass at recess and take his lunch money while you're at it.

Last thing, he's gotten word about you and the not believeing it part, why should he, if she keeps going to him?

I did this shit when I was a kid, I had a girl who would come over, just open my damn door and start humping me, she had a boyfriend, ring all that stuff, and just came to have sex, once a month or so, then she would leave, I didn't care either way.

Shit I was 20 and single, why would I care? I never gave her shit though, I think 1/2 a cigarette, that's about it.

I agree it does. I guarantee if that guy decided to throw a ring on your so called girlfriends hand, she would leave you in a heart beat. I think this guy she's hanging out with isn't as dumb as she make you believe he is. Actually he's quite smart. He just wants ass and thats it, but I feel your girl want more then what she is telling you. I'd bail from this one before your hurt even more.

 

[massnup]

I agree it does. I guarantee if that guy decided to throw a ring on your so called girlfriends hand, she would leave you in a heart beat. I think this guy she's hanging out with isn't as dumb as she make you believe he is. Actually he's quite smart. He just wants ass and thats it, but I feel your girl want more then what she is telling you. I'd bail from this one before your hurt even more.

Hes tried to pay her off to just be with him etc. and she won't do it. She has seen him twice in the 3 months that we've been dating and the 1st time was when we first started dating and he and his son and his sons gf came to hang out with her and her mom for 3 or 4 days and one other time a few weeks ago when she had to make a trip to kc so she had to hang with him and his other son and his sons gf that night and thats when she had to get the 2,500 for the rent and all.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

I guarantee if that guy decided to throw a ring on your so called girlfriends hand, she would leave you in a heart beat.

That reminds me of a pharmaceutical sales rep I know. Young lady, very pretty and supposedly "was finally in love with her career".... after spending some hard earned cash on getting her career off to a good start she said she was gonna enjoy this for the rest of her life. Along comes a guy who is filthy rich. Builds mega Yachts for the rich and shameless. After 2 months of knowing the guy he tosses her a ring and money and she never looked back on her pharmaceutical carreer ever again.

 

[maldorf]

hell ya

I had one for about 6 weeks and that was all I could take. She was always wanting to take me out to dinner and buy me new clothes. The new clothes thing bothered me, made me feel like she didnt like me for who I am. In the end it just made me feel empty and used. She was about 46 yrd old and I was 26. The sex was pretty damn good though!

 

[EasyEJL]

All I can add at this point is go see the movie "He's just not that into you".

 

[ericraven2003]

Anyone ever have to deal with this? I have been dating a girl that has one of these for about 3 months now, she only has to hangout with him once every 5 weeks or so to get money to pay her and her moms rent, utilities etc and that totals approx 2,500 per month and he gives her 400 every sunday on top of that. She swears up and dwon that nothing has ever happened between them, he is 45 and she just turned 26. He lives 4 hours away and shes with me every nite. He has bought her a new 30,000 dollar car also, she says that once she gets a job that she will tell him that she doesn't need him anymore but she evidently doesn't want to do that or give this deal up and its been going on for a little over a year now she says. He probably has 150,000 or so invested in her.

Thats called being a whore. No two ways about it. I dont buy for a second she is not fucking him either.