Instagram first. It's reduced attention spans and amplified impatience. Nobody can fucken
read anymore. It has to be instantaneous and a picture is just that.
I grew up as a teenager on ICQ and then MSN Messenger. Those were good forms of social media. All you could do was chat and you could only have contacts of people you actually knew. I can recall having many in-depth, important conversations with friends from my past. If they discussed a topic I wasn't familiar with I'd open a browser and start reading. Conversing, researching, and learning. I feel I got to know some people on a deeper level as you could discuss things you might not want to in a classroom with people overhearing.
Facebook was the beginning of the end. The wall post eliminated being interactive with one another. You could view things and ignore them. Or you could "like" them. Conversations became more and more rare. Then it snowballed into an endless circle jerk of one-upsmanship by insecure people who seek validation from others to get through their day. It's all become my weekend, wedding, party, vacation etc is better than yours. Girls especially, started having thousand of friends on facebook. Could they name 50 of them? No. It's because they approve every friend request from every asshole that hit on them at a bar and it makes them feel good.
I deleted facebook two years ago and it was a great decision. I really think it can be psychologically overwhelming when everyone is just constantly comparing themselves to one another. You become obsessive of how you're living your life and if you should be living it like that person you follow online.
https://zenpencils.com/comic/129-marc-maron-the-social-media-generation/