How do I get intimate with someone I’m not sexually attracted to at all?

[pheenix]

Weird issue to have. When I was single, I could rail any woman on the 0-10 scale if they wanted to give me pussy. Just knowing I was about to be between a woman's legs was enough to get me harder than diamonds.

I'm going to have to add my vote to the viagra option... and also stop mentally cock blocking yourself from getting laid. Stop thinking about her shortcomings and think about the fact you're going to get your dick wet

Down range pussy.

 

[BLKGUY2006]

Dude I dont think there is anything wrong. If you are not attracted then so be it. Right now she is emotionally damaged and banging her would just make her more confused. Have a female that just a friend may actually be a good thing. To know you would have someone when you are down and out would be cool. If she keeps wanting you to bang her you just gonna have to tell her. I think she will respect you for it. Im sure she knows what type girl you are attracted to, so she couldnt be upset about it..In short, just be friends

 

[mpjuice]

A friend of mine who recently become single and depressed came over to spend a couple of days with me. On paper she is perfect. Nice to my mom. Has a great career, etc. We get along so well as friends. Problem is I just don’t feel sexually attracted to her at all and I know she wants some companionship during this time.

Last night she is in my bed and I kept trying to get aroused and I couldn’t and she even asked me if I had erectile dysfunction. I just told her I might have it because I don’t have the heart to tell her I don’t find attractive. She is here with me till Saturday. Any advice on satisfying her? I even tried visualizing other girls while I was with her but couldn’t even get it up. And NO I’m not trolling.

This whole thing is very odd. Why is she in your bedroom sleeping in your bed, and why lead her on? Why not to set her up with one of your friends? Problem solved.
Women can easily get laid. She doesn't need you pity fucking her. (It's just going to make her think you're a lousy lay, like you said she asked if you had ED)

Imagine if she saw what you posted here. Leading her on going to ruin your friendship if it means anything to you. I honestly don't get why you were friend zone yourself in the first place. Women are for fucking and companionship. They are not friends (my wife approves this message)

If you want to do something to chemically alter yourself so you can f*** her take some pt-141 Cialis proviron, with some kind of stimulant have a few drinks or e alot of fun too.(your erection quality may vary lol)

 

[mpjuice]

Alcohol...actually meth.

Meth will work

 

[Newkidontheblock]

I’ve been in a similar situation in the past.
You have a sea of options and I hope you choose the right one for you.

It would help to have a discussion with her about how she feels and her intentions. Ask her a lot of questions and allow her to vent. Through this process, it could help you understand more about how this would affect your friendship with her and may slow her down from trying to ride you like sea Biscuit.
You should also establish how you feel and your intentions (aka this won’t be a relationship; this is a cleanse fuck)


Then load up on cialis, test susp, and dick her down!! YOU CAN DO IT! We believe in you!

 

[Chewbacca9861]

Out of all the things I've seen on here (2 grams of tren cycles, 1000 mgs of DNP, 20 ius of GH...)

Injecting your dick is probably the worst fucking thing out of all it. Don't care how safe it is, that is goddamn bonkers to me lol

Don't knock it till you try it

 

[Pinit2Winit]

If your into the person enough to care for and truly connect with than intimacy becomes natural and attraction can be looked over completely and I’ve met a few in my life that I litteraly felt I could see myself with just because of how beautiful of a person they were

 

[DarrenG29]

If your into the person enough to care for and truly connect with than intimacy becomes natural and attraction can be looked over completely and I’ve met a few in my life that I litteraly felt I could see myself with just because of how beautiful of a person they were

This is what I want to find you’ll never meet that on dating sites however which I’ve used and seen the same women on them for years

That’s the last place a beautiful person will be hard for me because probably like most I only go to the gym I don’t have any other hobby I don’t drink so meeting another girl seems impossible

 

[Pinit2Winit]

This is what I want to find you’ll never meet that on dating sites however which I’ve used and seen the same women on them for years

That’s the last place a beautiful person will be hard for me because probably like most I only go to the gym I don’t have any other hobby I don’t drink so meeting another girl seems impossible

True I feel ya. What about like meetup? U can find people interested in the same things locally too. Or tinder or even bumble which is pretty good and a little more serious not just for hookups mainly plus the women have to reply to you first which is great cuz if they do they’re obviously interested cuz I’ve matched on other sites and never get a reply or it goes a few words and they stop talking. Bumble you also get unlimited swipes. There is also Facebook dating

 

[DarrenG29]

True I feel ya. What about like meetup? U can find people interested in the same things locally too. Or tinder or even bumble which is pretty good and a little more serious not just for hookups mainly plus the women have to reply to you first which is great cuz if they do they’re obviously interested cuz I’ve matched on other sites and never get a reply or it goes a few words and they stop talking. Bumble you also get unlimited swipes. There is also Facebook dating

I’m on bumble had matches and only one person spoke and didn’t reply lol I’m on pof tinder okcupid bado none of which have brought a single thing I think women just have way to Much choices to choose from I even stated I’m not looking for a one night stand in my bio and what I enjoy walks scenery cooking movies etc yet nothing I’m giving up on them I don’t use Facebook my photos aren’t body and I wouldn’t say I’m not un attractive either from what im told so it’s not that and I have good chat it’s just choice they have so much I mind a women telling me she had 400 matches on tinder I’m lucky to get 8 lol

I haven’t used meet-up but in all honesty it’s the same women on these as I’ve use them myself for quite a few years and only now and again do new women pop up very rare I think I will go back to the one day out and about or in the gym maybe all find her

 

[Pinit2Winit]

I’m on bumble had matches and only one person spoke and didn’t reply lol I’m on pof tinder okcupid bado none of which have brought a single thing I think women just have way to Much choices to choose from I even stated I’m not looking for a one night stand in my bio and what I enjoy walks scenery cooking movies etc yet nothing I’m giving up on them I don’t use Facebook my photos aren’t body and I wouldn’t say I’m not un attractive either from what im told so it’s not that and I have good chat it’s just choice they have so much I mind a women telling me she had 400 matches on tinder I’m lucky to get 8 lol

I haven’t used meet-up but in all honesty it’s the same women on these as I’ve use them myself for quite a few years and only now and again do new women pop up very rare I think I will go back to the one day out and about or in the gym maybe all find her

I feel your struggle. I got lucky after 5 years of being single and found the one finally but took forever. I’ve only had maybe 3 serious relationships and was loosing hope. They’re out there though but covid doesn’t make it any easier either. It’s hard to suggest things when people meet in so many different ways and to tell you the truth we met on Facebook dating lol

 

[DarrenG29]

I feel your struggle. I got lucky after 5 years of being single and found the one finally but took forever. I’ve only had maybe 3 serious relationships and was loosing hope. They’re out there though but covid doesn’t make it any easier either. It’s hard to suggest things when people meet in so many different ways and to tell you the truth we met on Facebook dating lol

Yeah same only had 2 relationships
I think it’s a waiting game I did meet my ex on bumble that does seem the best choice out of them all since they do speak first I think it’s just when you find the one never let her go I thought my ex was that we had so many of the same habits never got bored of talking until I found out she was chatting to someone I know I seen it and did something and that was that just all fake but there’s good out there I’m waiting for it

I think if we didn’t go to the gym it would be easier though for sure it makes it harder as women find them self not good enough unless your Instagram famous you’ll get plenty chatting you up but not gf material

 

[Pinit2Winit]

Yeah same only had 2 relationships
I think it’s a waiting game I did meet my ex on bumble that does seem the best choice out of them all since they do speak first I think it’s just when you find the one never let her go I thought my ex was that we had so many of the same habits never got bored of talking until I found out she was chatting to someone I know I seen it and did something and that was that just all fake but there’s good out there I’m waiting for it

I think if we didn’t go to the gym it would be easier though for sure it makes it harder as women find them self not good enough unless your Instagram famous you’ll get plenty chatting you up but not gf material

Loll I know most women are to materialistic only worry about social media and how many followers or likes they get and there are women at the gym but seem to into themselves. Problem tho in this day and age too is that they got this Hollywood fairytale view of what love looks like and how guys are supposed to be picture perfect and what not and until they grow up and realize down the road and never find that Prince Charming it’s to late

 

[DarrenG29]

Loll I know most women are to materialistic only worry about social media and how many followers or likes they get and there are women at the gym but seem to into themselves. Problem tho in this day and age too is that they got this Hollywood fairytale view of what love looks like and how guys are supposed to be picture perfect and what not and until they grow up and realize down the road and never find that Prince Charming it’s to late

Spot on brother

 

[tkav1980]

First of all, if its really your good friend, you owe her the respect as a human being not to fuck her. Just be honest but gentle and make it a point to explain that in no way do you find her unattractive objectively, you just have other preferences and your friendship is too important to disrespect or risk.
If you want a selfish approach, treating her with respect will have her talking when she's not so upset about rhe recent loss and get you 5 times the amount of pussy later for being a good guy.


And just an FYI for some of the posts I see in this thread. I can grab 10 average to chubby guys out of my office that can pull pussy better than 90% of the people on this board. Pussy way out of their league in terms of looks.
They don't have muscles or 6 packs but they are the best salesmen I've had the pleasure of working with.
And these women absolutely adore them. Not one talks about or shows off how much money they make and the women they pull are all high value professionals.
Want to find a really good woman, learn to sell.

 

[BLKGUY2006]

First of all, if its really your good friend, you owe her the respect as a human being not to fuck her. Just be honest but gentle and make it a point to explain that in no way do you find her unattractive objectively, you just have other preferences and your friendship is too important to disrespect or risk.
If you want a selfish approach, treating her with respect will have her talking when she's not so upset about rhe recent loss and get you 5 times the amount of pussy later for being a good guy.


And just an FYI for some of the posts I see in this thread. I can grab 10 average to chubby guys out of my office that can pull pussy better than 90% of the people on this board. Pussy way out of their league in terms of looks.
They don't have muscles or 6 packs but they are the best salesmen I've had the pleasure of working with.
And these women absolutely adore them. Not one talks about or shows off how much money they make and the women they pull are all high value professionals.
Want to find a really good woman, learn to sell.

bingo!!! be a decent human being. I been single for 4 years and not found anything worth my time and effort. I just work, train, and raise my 2 kids all by myself. If the right woman pops up great, if not oh well....

 

[aphextwin]

Are you still hanging out with her? Normally I would say just hit it and move on, but since that doesn't sound like a viable option just tell her the distance is going to work. I've never dated anyone who lived over 30+ minutes away. If that isn't something you're willing to tell her, then tell her you don't see yourself in a relationship. Good luck!

 

[GearGodz]

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[GearGodz]

While that above statement remains true... the fact your here wanting to interact with her and be there for her shows something. You’re a good guy and feelings can develop over time. Be her rock and let your self open up to her. The chemistry will follow!