Everyone saying been training for x years and I'm not even close....
Don't you set smaller goals to achieve? I had set a long term goal of 220 lbs and short term goals of 180 and 200. Still it only took me a few years to get almost to 220 and now the next goal is 240, and then it will be 260. Does anyone ever really achieve their perfect ideal physique? I'm sure there is always something that can be improved. More size, symmetry, leaner, harder. So of course everyone could all say, still not there!
Side story my rear delts were pretty underdeveloped so a few months back I stopped training front delts and focused on rear and lateral 2x a week. Actually got asked at the gym today how I got my rear delts so big haha.