How much porn is normal?

[Performance Based]

Quick question, how much porn is normal to watch during a week? Not how much you watch but whats a normal while in a relationship?

Also how much would you consider normal for someone in their mid twenties on around a gram of test per week also in a relationship.

 

[ShortStop]

im looking at some kind of pornography everyday. i think thats normal for a healthy male. My girlfriend likes it too so that helps. we watch porn together and cam on aldult sites to spice things up nothing like a few thousand people watching to get ya going,lol

 

[PCT]

I am currentlly watching alot and in a relationship... not uncommon to masterbate and have intercourse withing a few hours of that... gf loves it

 

[Performance Based]

my issue is I am not allowed to watch any porn thats right 0 minutes a week, on a gram of test per week, in my mid twenties, in a relationship with more issues than I can count on both sides (were seeing a therapist for it though), and a pretty much terrible sex life at the moment because of the issues. I have a hard time even achieving an erection just from their being so many mental and emotional issues.

I keep getting the if you watch porn were over, is this normal? She thinks I am addicted to porn and am a sexual addict. Not too far off from the truth as I have always seeked out attention from the opposite sex since well the day we got together. But addicted to porn I don't think so?

 

[PCT]

my issue is I am not allowed to watch any porn thats right 0 minutes a week, on a gram of test per week, in my mid twenties, in a relationship with more issues than I can count on both sides (were seeing a therapist for it though), and a pretty much terrible sex life at the moment because of the issues. I have a hard time even achieving an erection just from their being so many mental and emotional issues.

I keep getting the if you watch porn were over, is this normal? She thinks I am addicted to porn and am a sexual addict. Not too far off from the truth as I have always seeked out attention from the opposite sex since well the day we got together. But addicted to porn I don't think so?

My GF doesnt really like it but in her exact words, "I would rather you jackoff to some random bitches on the web, rather than fuck the neighbors"

 

[rebeltex]

let her know

tell her that this is what men do and alot of women. It shows that at least you are not running around poking real women would she rather have that. that usually helps.

 

[phatrr]

Dude, that's harsh.

Is it normal? I know some women who are like that.

I, personally, would never be in a relationship with one. Because there's enough women who think it's no big deal, and yeah, I enjoy watching porn. I'll go through phases where I watch everyday, other times every other week.

I'm older - 50 - and think it's a good idea to have 1 ejaculation per day to keep the prostate healthy. It's actually a difficult goal to achieve, and I couldn't do it without porn.

As far as the ultimatum goes, ultimatums are never healthy. I feel for ya', bro. Good luck.

EDIT: for the record, we've been married 17 years. So, it's possible to have a healthy marriage and still masturbate and watch porn.

 

[SteaknAle]

If watching porn results in:

- staying up beyond when you should be going to bed
- making you late for work
- saying "I'll be right there," or "One minute!," and 30 minutes later you pull yourself away;
- You don't hear what others around you are asking you;
- The dog is peeing on the floor because you can't get up and let him out;
- The house is a mess because you don't clean up after yourself
- These things happen and you still say, "hey, it's not a problem.."

Then it's a problem.

If it doesn't affect other aspects of your life, then she's just a controlling bitch.

If you find yourself furtively watching, and quickly minimizing the screen or erasing the history to keep from getting discovered....

Then you BOTH have problems.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but there's no fucking a way someone in their mid-20s should already be int relationshipo therapy. Sounds like you jumped into something too soon....

 

[ShortStop]

some women think that there competing with the girls on porn and r jealous. sounds very insecure to me. u have to calm her fears get her in to fantasy play dress up porn might be a lil to advanced for her right now. u gotta work that in slowly

 

[Performance Based]

some women think that there competing with the girls on porn and r jealous. sounds very insecure to me. u have to calm her fears get her in to fantasy play dress up porn might be a lil to advanced for her right now. u gotta work that in slowly

Weve gone to swingers clubs I guess you could call it, didn't swap but shes let me bang her in public. Shes fine if we watch porn as long as its together, and well like once a month. Don't think thats what it is to be honest?

 

[evoixmr18]

Lol since I started my last cycle I been having sex once aday plus jerkin it to porn atleast twice through the day!!! Can't get enough

 

[Joejo]

my issue is I am not allowed to watch any porn thats right 0 minutes a week, on a gram of test per week, in my mid twenties, in a relationship with more issues than I can count on both sides (were seeing a therapist for it though), and a pretty much terrible sex life at the moment because of the issues. I have a hard time even achieving an erection just from their being so many mental and emotional issues.

I keep getting the if you watch porn were over, is this normal? She thinks I am addicted to porn and am a sexual addict. Not too far off from the truth as I have always seeked out attention from the opposite sex since well the day we got together. But addicted to porn I don't think so?

It shouldn't be this hard in your mid-twenties. How long have you been together??? If she is really willing to throw it all away after going to therapy, then let it be you will find someone new. In your mid twenties the only issue you should have is how to fit more hours in the day for sex and porn.

 

[Performance Based]

It shouldn't be this hard in your mid-twenties. How long have you been together??? If she is really willing to throw it all away after going to therapy, then let it be you will find someone new. In your mid twenties the only issue you should have is how to fit more hours in the day for sex and porn.

2.5 years, a huge issue why its hard to split is because we've done so much together over that time and grown a ton as individuals together. Spent around 75K in travel over the past two years on us so theres alot of amazing memories together. Shes also one of the few people I have ever met that is ok with my line of work and the things that I have done.

Past year has been complete hell because I have made it that way seeking out attention from other women etc, so I am trying to take the counseling extremely seriously.

 

[PRIDE]

If watching porn results in:

- staying up beyond when you should be going to bed
- making you late for work
- saying "I'll be right there," or "One minute!," and 30 minutes later you pull yourself away;
- You don't hear what others around you are asking you;
- The dog is peeing on the floor because you can't get up and let him out;
- The house is a mess because you don't clean up after yourself
- These things happen and you still say, "hey, it's not a problem.."

Then it's a problem.

If it doesn't affect other aspects of your life, then she's just a controlling bitch.

If you find yourself furtively watching, and quickly minimizing the screen or erasing the history to keep from getting discovered....

Then you BOTH have problems.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but there's no fucking a way someone in their mid-20s should already be int relationshipo therapy. Sounds like you jumped into something too soon....

There ya go

 

[Joejo]

2.5 years, a huge issue why its hard to split is because we've done so much together over that time and grown a ton as individuals together. Spent around 75K in travel over the past two years on us so theres alot of amazing memories together. Shes also one of the few people I have ever met that is ok with my line of work and the things that I have done.

Past year has been complete hell because I have made it that way seeking out attention from other women etc, so I am trying to take the counseling extremely seriously.

On a serious note, you seem like a good guy. After being with the same women for 15 years I can assure you that if it is going sour now it will only be worst in 6 months, a year or how ever long it lasts. Being in your mid-twenties you should be having fun and enjoying yourself. Maybe she would have been the one had the timing been different or you met at different times in your life. Just remember if you strayed and she caught you or found out she will never forget, even if she says I forgive you, she won't. Maybe you strayed because your not happy. I totally understand about growing together with a person, but honestly it seems like the time has come for the both of you to grow apart. Just remember being together and being miserable is worst for you both emotionally, mentally and physically. Only you know for sure, but it seems like the porn is the least of it my friend.

Be good and be happy.

 

[ganggreen]

my x wife hated porn, busted my chops about it on a daily basis and I did not really watch allot of it then just to keep the peace. Thus we are now divorced. Since then I watch allot of porn with my GF's I like to call it research and development.

 

[sunshine]

Like it too

I have to admit I really enjoy as a woman to watch them. before I didnt have no interest and thought to myself why would he watch porn when he has a hot sexy woman (me) but now I have a better understanding why guys like it so much. Also I have to admit I was a very jealous person for no reasons.guess where I grew up in South America different mentality.
But I learned and trained my mind to have a better possitive understanding.wish he was here now and enjoy more porn and more sex.......Is never too late to watch porn and have fun with the one you love it makes it better.....

 

[MrRage]

in before someone tells you that you will burn in hell for looking at porn...


also thanks for reminding me... time to go rub a few out.

 

[Kaladryn]

5-10 minutes 3-5 times per day is "normal" plus sex with the gf 1-3 times, depending on cycle.

 

[mojo jojo]

my issue is I am not allowed to watch any porn thats right 0 minutes a week, on a gram of test per week, in my mid twenties, in a relationship with more issues than I can count on both sides (were seeing a therapist for it though), and a pretty much terrible sex life at the moment because of the issues. I have a hard time even achieving an erection just from their being so many mental and emotional issues.

I keep getting the if you watch porn were over, is this normal? She thinks I am addicted to porn and am a sexual addict. Not too far off from the truth as I have always seeked out attention from the opposite sex since well the day we got together. But addicted to porn I don't think so?

Are you married and have kids with this girl? If you do not why exactly are you trying to save such a seriously troubled relationship? I hate to sound cold but you should get out of this relationship. If you feel you have personal problems continue to see the counselor on your own and work on your own problems. After you feel like you have yourself strait then go look for new relationship. It is very hard to change while in the same relationship. It is not impossible but it is very difficult. I am sure a lot of the older guys will agree with me on this.