How much porn is normal?

[BigDaddyBone]

5-10 minutes 3-5 times per day is "normal" plus sex with the gf 1-3 times, depending on cycle.

Damn...for all you guys whacking it more than once a day, do you ever notice your shoulder getting sore?

If i "hit it" twice a day or more, my biceps tendonitis flares up, but seeing how often people here seem to do it maybe my technique is off LOL...

 

[brisk walk]

I decided to back off, when I realized I was watching it every day.


Now, it is more like 4 times a week. A little bit is normal......daily viewing, might be a bit over the top.

 

[phreak]

i look at porn on average at least once a day. and when i my woman is with me, we fuck anywhere from 2-8 times a day when i am on, 1 when off.

and even if i can't fuck, i'll make her cum because i get off on that.

hell i've made about a Gig of "private" porn with her

so anyways, i don't think there is anything wrong with porn until you start to prefer it over your woman.

i say embrace your phreakdom, and if your partner isn't with it go find another who is.

 

[BigEnough]

I watch all I want!! As long as it's in your spare time and you can still function and take care of things in your life that have to be taken care of... It's normal! Most men don't realize that their wife/gf play with themselves a lot when you don't even know! A lot of women take their experence of masturbation from childhood into their adult life and consider it taboo to do it by yourself... Some chicks like porn but most of them get off to romantic movies or books... My girl doesn't care and most normal girls that aren't jealous won't care!

 

[Maverick]

Im not sure there is a real answer for this. I think it depends on the person. I dont watch pron unless Im with my wife or looking for some new porn that we can watch together but i believe it goes towards the boundaries set by each individual relationship. Some people think nothing of watching porn while they eat pancackes in the morning. Some dont watch any at all. It just depends.

 

[Ashop]

If watching porn results in:

- staying up beyond when you should be going to bed
- making you late for work
- saying "I'll be right there," or "One minute!," and 30 minutes later you pull yourself away;
- You don't hear what others around you are asking you;
- The dog is peeing on the floor because you can't get up and let him out;
- The house is a mess because you don't clean up after yourself
- These things happen and you still say, "hey, it's not a problem.."

Then it's a problem.

If it doesn't affect other aspects of your life, then she's just a controlling bitch.

If you find yourself furtively watching, and quickly minimizing the screen or erasing the history to keep from getting discovered....

Then you BOTH have problems.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but there's no fucking a way someone in their mid-20s should already be int relationshipo therapy. Sounds like you jumped into something too soon....

I think you said it best.

 

[jt4330]

my gf used to be against it pretty hard, but then broke down once I told her she can't always be there when i need her lol. Then she realized like one of the other posters gf, atleast you jacking off to some bitch off the internet and not fucking the neighbor lol.

 

[Sourshoes]

A dude that doesn't or isn't allowed to look at porn just isn't right IMO.

 

[SpartanLabs]

IF YOU DONT WATCH PORN AND FUCK YOUR YOUR FEMALE COUNTERPARTS YOU ARE GAY...... OR YOU JUST NEED SOME SPARTA TEST DVD'S

BOOOOMMMMMM MOOOOTTTHHHHHERRRFUUUUCCCKKKKKEERRRRRR:headbang:

 

[Steinway]

Porn- what a can of worms

Here's the deal:
We all know that porn objectifies women, probably degrades them, and treats them as whores and sluts (or at least most porn does, as I have done a lot of field work, if you know what I mean). However, it still gives me a boner. On the flip side, I know that many normal women would prefer that their man abstain from watching it, as most women aren't the freaks we all wish they were- (which is likely a pretty good human failsafe, don't you think?) BUT, here's two of my points:

• PORN KEEPS ME FROM CHEATING- It just does. I am a high boner guy, as many of you guys are, and frankly, when the chicken has been thoroughly choked, I look no further, ya know? Then, when the wife is home, I get to knock the bottom out again...it just works.
• PORN JUST GETS IT DONE SOMETIMES- No one has to know about it, its fairly discreet (even though my wife knows I do it and I think she EXPECTS me to at least try and keep it out and off the computer- its a little game we play), and I get to breath easier.

However, I can't help wondering if somehow, somewhere, it's affecting me just a little bit every time I watch it? Does anyone feel this way?

 

[Nssca]

Quick question, how much porn is normal to watch during a week? Not how much you watch but whats a normal while in a relationship?

Also how much would you consider normal for someone in their mid twenties on around a gram of test per week also in a relationship.

To even ask this question you obviously feel guilty about it.
If watching porn doesn't effect any of your relationships negatively then don't feel bad about it.

 

[TODouble2]

i cycle my porn usage just like gear.. sometimes i'm fully ON, watching porn twice a day and then months go by where i watch maybe once or twice a week.

whats normal? i dont know but i know whats more fun!

 

[BigSwole]

My girl can't take being fucked 3+ times a day so I watch porn and take matters into my own hands.

If she told me I couldn't watch porn I'd be out the door.

 

[hemipower]

my issue is I am not allowed to watch any porn thats right 0 minutes a week, on a gram of test per week, in my mid twenties, in a relationship with more issues than I can count on both sides (were seeing a therapist for it though), and a pretty much terrible sex life at the moment because of the issues. I have a hard time even achieving an erection just from their being so many mental and emotional issues.

I keep getting the if you watch porn were over, is this normal? She thinks I am addicted to porn and am a sexual addict. Not too far off from the truth as I have always seeked out attention from the opposite sex since well the day we got together. But addicted to porn I don't think so?

Mid 20s and in a relationship with TONS of problems...and going to counseling?? Cheaper and easier to find a chick without all the problems who will be ok with the porn. I have been with a woman like this and it was a nightmare. I kept trying thinking I loved her...nope.
Current girl has a problem with the porn - will do it together but "would rather not know" if it happens without her...trying to warm her up to it more but may just avoid the talks about it completely and keep my history PG rated in appearance. LOL

 

[phil mcgroin]

I started to sell my sperm to a clinic a few years ago.I couldnt believe all the money I was letting slip through my fingers

 

[TODouble2]

I started to sell my sperm to a clinic a few years ago.I couldnt believe all the money I was letting slip through my fingers

i had a friend who paid for an apartment for months with no job by donating sperm regularly... he got a nice amount of money because he was smart and a musician. probably has 100 kids out there. funniest part is he lost his shit and he's crazy now. had a mental breakdown and never was the same again. i wonder it the craziness was in his genes!

 

[pyramid74]

My wife hates porn. It almost ruined my marriage. I had to make the decision to make her give me some or pose for me when I was really horny. She looked as good as anyone till I knocked her up 3 times. I love her but it does suck sometimes.

 

[petersouth]

Are you married and have kids with this girl? If you do not why exactly are you trying to save such a seriously troubled relationship? I hate to sound cold but you should get out of this relationship. If you feel you have personal problems continue to see the counselor on your own and work on your own problems. After you feel like you have yourself strait then go look for new relationship. It is very hard to change while in the same relationship. It is not impossible but it is very difficult. I am sure a lot of the older guys will agree with me on this.

Yeah I have to agree with that. Reality check time. "Not allowed to watch porn?" lol

And this counselor thing. wtf man, you don't want to see a counselor. Unless YOU think you have an addiction you should tell them to pound sand.

Always practice early detection and swift removal.

 

[petersouth]

Damn...for all you guys whacking it more than once a day, do you ever notice your shoulder getting sore?

If i "hit it" twice a day or more, my biceps tendonitis flares up, but seeing how often people here seem to do it maybe my technique is off LOL...

My left delt and tricep got a lot beefier than the right side because I was leanin back on it when doing the deed.

I took a "before" photo with my shirt off after a long layoff from training and i was like damn that's mest up. The left one looked pretty good but my right side was all scrawny.

Took me a long time to get that evened up. Fair warning.