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I will share my ancient secrets with you that took 1,000 of years to figure out..........lol
This is what you do...don't try to be cool and ask a stupid question like are you a fitness model..etc..she will just roll her eyes..it's like a girl coming up to you and saying..Do you workout.
In my personal experience I use a non-threatening normal approach...and it works!! However you have to build a base first..don't ask her out right away..you need to build her trust. SO what you do for the introduction is when you are about to leave..and she is in between set you just walk up and say..Hey I pretty much see you everyday in here and wanted to introduce my self...My name is (your name)...whats yours..? Well it's great to finally meet you..I have to go now and I will let you finish up your sets see you tomorrow..and I will say HI...then give her a smile and walk away...Simple.. You are basically setting up a base that will lead to more conversation and open the gate for more information. you can usually find out if she has a boy friend with out asking direct questions... you say something like.. so do you have a big weekend planned ...? she might say..well my BF and I are..etc..
Seems to be a simple way to break the ice thanks for the tip. I do want to find out her background because she looks different from everyone I see (exotic looks?) i can't pinpoint it and I was considering coming up to her and asking. What do you think? Too personal?