No, I think you hit the nail right on the tale... That made me think, I've always felt that because I was a bodybuilder, people tend to think that I can separate my body from my mind and soul, as if it commits no sins, it's just robotic... They also see us as someone who sees the body as a possession, like say a sports car, or hot rod they take pride in and show off? We expect people to marvel and admire our bodies; almost like a pornstar, someone who can perform on camera, have no emotions involved and then everyone parts ways, nobody finds out about it... OR something like that...
Even if not fully and consciously, There is a hint of that^ In their heads, it's on the back of their minds... Think about it, they know you look in the mirror and go to the gym, train as hard as you can, take god knows what, give up drinking to make yourself look constantly better for the next time you look in the mirror... What matters to you is the physical, so that makes them think about bodies and physical... So it's easier for them to think about you that way, even before you say a damn word... Now some of you or us, fuck that up, you start talking about hopes and dreams, where you grew up, what your dog had for beakfast, what your aunt Ruth at last night's bridge game... See all this shit<>, (Trying to find all the arrows on my keyboard) anyway, all that other shit you talked to your would've been your last lay) is superfluous, that shit's irrelevant, she just wants to fuck, you pussy, now she friend zoned your ass and the boring fucking friend zone at that...
just act stupid, talk about sports, belch... You start boring them about shit that's going on in this world, current events, climate change, presidential debates, whatever... That's all bullshit, she's talking to you because she wants to fuck... If she wanted brains, she'd be hitting up the chess club...
That's about all I got... Hope you enjoyed...