I never thought of it, but i noticed this trend of losing masculinity. Being manly, driven, and slightly aggressive is frowned upon. Everybody is trying to be cool. No drive anymore. I am young, and my buddies are lazy, plain and simple. Lol, they always ask me how i can afford what i have, i tell them WORK, they dont change tho.
I am foreign too. also from an ex-communist country. and guys there, even though skinny (food is expensive) have very manly features. being 20 is considered grown up and responsible, not these pussy emo kids. I have been in america a long time, and call it my country, but a fact is a fact, america's boys are more like girls. if you tried to do something dumb like cut yourself or wear tight emo jeans where i was born, you would just get beaten. repeatedly.