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a good friend post this on his blog on myspace had to share it with you all
If you find a woman worth giving yourself to, If you love a woman…
We've all been through the dating grinder, and felt what it means to be with people who neither cared for, nor deserved us. And sometimes we forget some valuable lessons from the people who did matter.
If you find a woman worth giving yourself to, If you love a woman…
You don't just tell her she is the only one. You tell everyone, she is the only one. So she never needs to worry about you straying, and so everyone knows where your heart is. You will only get support and admiration from others for this.
You let your friends know how you feel about her. So when they meet her, she can sense them welcome her. In turn, they will support you as a couple.
You buy her an item of jewelry, because every woman deserves something special. If she loves you, the price won't matter. It simply needs to be a symbol of you. And of how she is special to you. What matters is that every time she chose to wear it, she thinks of you. And ever time you see her wear it, you think of her commitment to you, and how proudly she shows it.
You buy her a dress, because she will only make you look good and special when she wears it for you. You buy her a dress, so that she will look forward to the day, you go somewhere special together, and she can honor you by taking the time to look beautiful for you. You remember the time she spends getting ready, to go out, not because she wants other men to look at her, but because she wants her man to look at her, and wants everyone else to know he deserves someone special.
You buy her an item of lingerie to remind her of how sexy she is. You remember that every time she stands naked before you, she lets herself be vulnerable, and she entrusts you with her feelings. You do this to remind her, she is and will always be sexy to you.
You don't wait for her to need things at your place; you have things there so she will feel welcome. You don't give her a chance to worry about invading your space with her products she may need. Instead you purchase them, and have them there to remind her of how her presence is a pleasure, and her taking the time to come see you is appreciated. You make her feel comfortable for all the nights she stays with you.
You sneak off for the weekend with her, because you remember all the times you didn't have someone to share something special with. You do it, because every experience you have together brings you closer together, and adds that much more value to your relationship. You do it, because of all the places she could be, the only one that matters is any place you are with her.
You call, or text message her, or leave her a note, just to say you are thinking about her. You let her know that she is, and will always be on your mind. You do this because you now have someone, that when you want to share something with, no matter how small, that person will always be happy to hear from you. And you appreciate being that special to someone.
Every so often a woman comes into your life that is worth it. remember the important things you've learned. remember how to love and appreciate someone worthwhile. do it, because you can, and be grateful to have someone who deserves it.
If you find a woman worth giving yourself to, If you love a woman…
We've all been through the dating grinder, and felt what it means to be with people who neither cared for, nor deserved us. And sometimes we forget some valuable lessons from the people who did matter.
If you find a woman worth giving yourself to, If you love a woman…
You don't just tell her she is the only one. You tell everyone, she is the only one. So she never needs to worry about you straying, and so everyone knows where your heart is. You will only get support and admiration from others for this.
You let your friends know how you feel about her. So when they meet her, she can sense them welcome her. In turn, they will support you as a couple.
You buy her an item of jewelry, because every woman deserves something special. If she loves you, the price won't matter. It simply needs to be a symbol of you. And of how she is special to you. What matters is that every time she chose to wear it, she thinks of you. And ever time you see her wear it, you think of her commitment to you, and how proudly she shows it.
You buy her a dress, because she will only make you look good and special when she wears it for you. You buy her a dress, so that she will look forward to the day, you go somewhere special together, and she can honor you by taking the time to look beautiful for you. You remember the time she spends getting ready, to go out, not because she wants other men to look at her, but because she wants her man to look at her, and wants everyone else to know he deserves someone special.
You buy her an item of lingerie to remind her of how sexy she is. You remember that every time she stands naked before you, she lets herself be vulnerable, and she entrusts you with her feelings. You do this to remind her, she is and will always be sexy to you.
You don't wait for her to need things at your place; you have things there so she will feel welcome. You don't give her a chance to worry about invading your space with her products she may need. Instead you purchase them, and have them there to remind her of how her presence is a pleasure, and her taking the time to come see you is appreciated. You make her feel comfortable for all the nights she stays with you.
You sneak off for the weekend with her, because you remember all the times you didn't have someone to share something special with. You do it, because every experience you have together brings you closer together, and adds that much more value to your relationship. You do it, because of all the places she could be, the only one that matters is any place you are with her.
You call, or text message her, or leave her a note, just to say you are thinking about her. You let her know that she is, and will always be on your mind. You do this because you now have someone, that when you want to share something with, no matter how small, that person will always be happy to hear from you. And you appreciate being that special to someone.
Every so often a woman comes into your life that is worth it. remember the important things you've learned. remember how to love and appreciate someone worthwhile. do it, because you can, and be grateful to have someone who deserves it.
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