if your girlfriend was/is a model...

[besoge]

I'm struggling with this whole thing because my current girlfriend is a model and its notblike her main gig or anything for now but it gets annoying. Sketchy camera men constantly hiting on her, her being suggestively dressed infront of these people and then it just bothers me about the possibility of doing shoots with guys. The last thing I want to see is a picture of my girlfriend wrapped up in some other dudes arms in a magazine or even a photo at all. That thought drives me insane. I told her that if she pursues it any further I'm not comfortable with her being in pictures with other men. Is that unreasonable? Any input on the modeling thing in general. Or the pics with dudes would be greatly appreciated

 

[jm750]

One thing i could never stand is a partner that was jealous. If she is committed to you, then you have nothing to worry about. So what if she takes photo's with other guys. At the end of the day, if only your dick is going into her, who cares.
Sounds like you are being insecure.

 

[Gators]

I cannot judge if there's an issue unless you post some nudes of her, then i can make a thorough evaluation.

 

[matt1164]

I'm struggling with this whole thing because my current girlfriend is a model and its notblike her main gig or anything for now but it gets annoying. Sketchy camera men constantly hiting on her, her being suggestively dressed infront of these people and then it just bothers me about the possibility of doing shoots with guys. The last thing I want to see is a picture of my girlfriend wrapped up in some other dudes arms in a magazine or even a photo at all. That thought drives me insane. I told her that if she pursues it any further I'm not comfortable with her being in pictures with other men. Is that unreasonable? Any input on the modeling thing in general. Or the pics with dudes would be greatly appreciated

I dated a wannabe model chick when I was a young lad. that relationship fucked up my opinion of women and made me a less trusting person over all.

that industry is all fuckd up IMo. I knew a couple of the photogs and they were would shoot some of the girls portfolio pics for free if they thought the girls would put out. it really disgusted me until I became a photographer.

 

[Jello]

Get over it or move on.

 

[sluggy]

I wouldn't recommend dealing with models long term. They're way too insecure.

Some level of jealousy is healthy but you need to have some trust otherwise you're going to go nuts.

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[MonkeyBoy]

if your girl is attractive, I have news for you...no matter if she is a model or not there will always be guys hitting on her. Like said, get over it or move on.

Its not so much the dudes or photo guys you need to be concerned about but the girl herself. If she is comitted to you and doesn't thrive on people always giving her complements than you should be fine. There has to be trust...

I do agree with sluggy, most of them are so insecure that that CRAVE that attention. F that, rather find a confident girl who doesn't need attention except from her man.

 

[jm750]

if your girl is attractive, I have news for you...no matter if she is a model or not there will always be guys hitting on her. Like said, get over it or move on.

Its not so much the dudes or photo guys you need to be concerned about but the girl herself. If she is comitted to you and doesn't thrive on people always giving her complements than you should be fine. There has to be trust...

I do agree with sluggy, most of them are so insecure that that CRAVE that attention. F that, rather find a confident girl who doesn't need attention except from her man.

+1 a confident woman has always drawn my attention.

 

[ra-ra]

Was she already a model when you met her?

 

[jm750]

Was she already a model when you met her?

If so, the OP was the same one of those guys he speaks of that wanted to bang her.....

 

[SAGE74]

Get some self confidence man! If you don't you're going to go mad! it doesn't sound like you're ready for a girl like that. good luck lol!

 

[triathloncoach]

Wait a minute, is there anyone out there that doesn't exclusively date models? I meet them all the time while I get my clothes custom made because I really am that muscular.
I'm pretty sure I casted your GF to get her first gig. I just texted her photos to Q and JR.

 

[zaven]

I'm struggling with this whole thing because my current girlfriend is a model and its notblike her main gig or anything for now but it gets annoying. Sketchy camera men constantly hiting on her, her being suggestively dressed infront of these people and then it just bothers me about the possibility of doing shoots with guys. The last thing I want to see is a picture of my girlfriend wrapped up in some other dudes arms in a magazine or even a photo at all. That thought drives me insane. I told her that if she pursues it any further I'm not comfortable with her being in pictures with other men. Is that unreasonable? Any input on the modeling thing in general. Or the pics with dudes would be greatly appreciated

Doesn't matter what you tell her....If you don't support her she will find a man that will.

Women want confident men.

 

[besoge]

In my opinion she does crave the attention and it pisses me the fuck off. I guess its that combined with less than 100% trust in women in general

 

[jm750]

I guess its that combined with less than 100% trust in women in general

The only alternative is a fatty. You basically don't have to worry about them getting all the attention or cheating on you. Heck, they are just happy to have a man!
But I know this is prolly not an option for you, and I don't blame you!

 

[ajdos]

I agree with Jello, trying dating strippers, knowing your woman is showing the goods to strangers for money.
You want to date hot chicks thats part of the deal, the sooner you thicken up your skin on this the better off you will be.

 

[TommyQ]

My wife still models and does fashion shows. The scene is sketchy, but it's her hobby. She has done lots of shows and only once has someone sized me up. Most of the male models are gay. It's hard for me to be threatened by a man in make-up. When I go to her shows, I feel like a raging ball of test compared to most these guys lol. Be careful of perv photographers and clothing designers. That's what has actually pushed her away from the scene. She only models for women and gay designers pretty much. If your relationship is strong, you have nothing to worry about.

 

[mookie9920]

The only alternative is a fatty. You basically don't have to worry about them getting all the attention or cheating on you. Heck, they are just happy to have a man!
But I know this is prolly not an option for you, and I don't blame you!

Or another alternative is to find a cute girl not a hott one. My ex was super cute and didn't even know it. Those are the perfect kind.

 

[besoge]

Tommy could you elaborate about what exactly you mean by perv photographers and designers like how Pervy are you talking here

 

[Incognito1]

My wife has done a lot of modelling. She stopped about a year and half ago as it was taking up too much time of her spare time and was quite demanding.
She has done everything from fashion, catalogue work, swimsuit work and comps and men's mags (not porn) she has been in just about every glamour magazine over here and some in the UK also.
First words of advise: you can't be a jealous boyfriend cause it won't get you anywhere. If you have a good girl and a good relationship, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Being jealous will just cause unnecessary dramas and this will reflect on her mood in the shoot and you probably wont be with her for long. She will find some one that will support her interests.
When there was a shoot I would attend and sit in the background, but be noticed enough to make sure the photographers or advertisers don't try anything. Whether your big or small you are still a deterent for them just cause your there. Most of the time I used to get to know them pretty well so next time there was a shoot i would get asked to help them out with lighting or security etc.... So a lot of the time I got paid too
You must always remember that it takes two to tango. So if your girl is the type to reply to their flirting, well she might not be the girl you want. At least not for long term anyway