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Increasing test dose for performance anxiety? Can’t orgasm

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I never had a problem cumming before. I was married for 13 years, now divorced.

Know I’m with my dream girl, love her to death, she’s awesome. Beautiful tight fit body. I get nervous with her, and she’s really shy. Performance anxiety I know it. Even with Cialis, I go soft after time.

I get frustrated because I focus so hard on cumming and get pissed when I can’t. I just get annoyed. I get like 60% there and loose it every time. I just focus way to hard because I know it won’t happen and the more we have sex, the more we try, the more annoyed I get, it’s a backwards spiral. I have to fake it every time.

I’m on trt + hcg, my lab work is good
I don’t watch porn or jerk off
I always have a boner around her, constantly and morning wood
I take Maca and others
No psych meds that kill boners


***should i up my test dose for now just to get over this hump?
***do kegels help this?
***how can I get the urge to nut!
 
I think its mental, if you really thinking about cumming hard your going to fuck your brain up. Same thing if you trying not to cum. If you think that hard about something it's not going to be natural. Try to relax a bit and not think about it, maybe a drink or two to take the edge off. Go into it and just have fun, do some funky weird shit and dont think about it.
 
Totally mental dude. This happened to me once. Couple of things, next time you have sex try not to cum. Forget about your orgasm and concentrate on the quality of your time together. Focus on her. I'd tell her what's happening and say "Babe, not important if I cum. Trust me I will at some point" Just look at her beauty, make her cum. Lick it, eat it, fuck it! Just enjoy what's happening at the time. The finish line is not important.
 
Do you take an AI? What’s your E2 level? Low E2 is just as bad if not worse than high. I’ve noticed a trend of over prescribed AI on TRT.
 
Have you done deca or tren in your last cycle. This happens to me when I get a prolactin build up and have to throw in the caber. Also a little weed never hurt to take the edge off the anxiety.
 
I never had a problem cumming before. I was married for 13 years, now divorced.

Know I’m with my dream girl, love her to death, she’s awesome. Beautiful tight fit body. I get nervous with her, and she’s really shy. Performance anxiety I know it. Even with Cialis, I go soft after time.

I get frustrated because I focus so hard on cumming and get pissed when I can’t. I just get annoyed. I get like 60% there and loose it every time. I just focus way to hard because I know it won’t happen and the more we have sex, the more we try, the more annoyed I get, it’s a backwards spiral. I have to fake it every time.

I’m on trt + hcg, my lab work is good
I don’t watch porn or jerk off
I always have a boner around her, constantly and morning wood
I take Maca and others
No psych meds that kill boners


***should i up my test dose for now just to get over this hump?
***do kegels help this?
***how can I get the urge to nut!

serious Q...do you get BJs before sex? i ask because this seems to relax me and get things moving in the right direction (if ya catch my drift). i have had the other problem though of cumming too fast so in that sense the BJ has not always worked in my favor.
 
I never had a problem cumming before. I was married for 13 years, now divorced.

Know I’m with my dream girl, love her to death, she’s awesome. Beautiful tight fit body. I get nervous with her, and she’s really shy. Performance anxiety I know it. Even with Cialis, I go soft after time.

I get frustrated because I focus so hard on cumming and get pissed when I can’t. I just get annoyed. I get like 60% there and loose it every time. I just focus way to hard because I know it won’t happen and the more we have sex, the more we try, the more annoyed I get, it’s a backwards spiral. I have to fake it every time.

I’m on trt + hcg, my lab work is good
I don’t watch porn or jerk off
I always have a boner around her, constantly and morning wood
I take Maca and others
No psych meds that kill boners


***should i up my test dose for now just to get over this hump?
***do kegels help this?
***how can I get the urge to nut!

I haven't tried this myself, so I can give no first hand experience. But you could try oxytocin.

Oxytocin has many effects in the body, but it is the "bonding hormone" that helps people form emotional trusting bonds together, like mothers and children after they are born, or men and women having sex together. Oxytocin is definitely involved in the ejaculatory process, and has helped some men and women overcome issues with delayed orgasm, although other studies are inconclusive.

Some TRT clinics and doctors prescribe oxytocin lozenges or troches to help men who have trouble reaching orgasm. It works for some, not so well for others. Some compounding pharmacies like Empower Pharmacy and MenMD.com (Pharmalabs) have 50iu lozenges available by prescription for men with these issues. And I have seen it on the list of various research chem sites.

Oxytocin might help you relax enough with your girl so that it is easier for you to orgasm.

I could suggest Valium as well, but Valium can have both positive and negative effects. It makes it easier for me to relax and get an erection, but sometimes can make it harder for me to get excited enough to cum. So some people will have success and it won't work for others.

Cabergoline and yohimbine also help some people, don't help others. It all depends on the specific issues of that person.

You just have to find what works for you.

The following review will give you some ideas:

The drug treatment of delayed ejaculation - Abdel-Hamid - Translational Andrology and Urology
 
Androgens make it hard to cum for many, what is your test level at? Are you using an AI? Too low of E2 would make you androgen dominate at produce the same effect.

My initial, instinctive, troll response:

Your gf is probably cheating on you with a guy who has a bigger dick and so she isn't as tight anymore.
 
Jerk off..

Doctors who script pde5s always say the only way to get certain areas saturated with th drug is to make sure the blood gets circulated to the area more frequently.

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9/10 times estrogen is either tt high or too low. You'll have to dial it in possible require. bloodwork.
 
Androgens make it hard to cum for many, what is your test level at? Are you using an AI? Too low of E2 would make you androgen dominate at produce the same effect.

My initial, instinctive, troll response:

Your gf is probably cheating on you with a guy who has a bigger dick and so she isn't as tight anymore.

You might be right, the kid is 5'5-5'6" probably got a baby dick. :eek:
 
Look into restoring your dopamine system as that plays a role in ejaculation. Also I think you should get pregnenolone and progesterone tested so you can rule out if your problem comes from that.
 
I had that problem with a girlfriend once early this year. Then turned her around in the dark, and everything was fine from then on. Once I got one nut in it was all good, no more problems. I guess I needed less visual stimuli, more sensation.
 

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