Is porn cheating?

[instynct999]

i am in the same boat bro--and yes largely it is an insecurity thang
BUT everyone has their hangups (we ain't perfect either,IS we,LOL) and i choose to respect her wishes so it becomes easy for me not to look at any porn and also self gratify as all it takes is some self control and you do get less habituated after a while (although , yes, the urge is there at times)

it is a serious issue and if this is one of her only flaws it is likely best to just respect her and do this for her--YOU IMO are not wrong to do so --HOWEVER this is IMO a small thing in the bigger picture and it honors your commitment and love for her if you do this FOR her
we do not have to agree , but we are a bigger man for respecting them in this area

if ya ever want to talk just slip me your digits

If a guy looks every once in awhile at porn online, do gf's have a right to be PISSED?

Mine seems to think so. She says that if I am looking at porn, it means I am not satisfied at home (which I am). I looked at Dr. Goodbody's thread on porn and she looked in the history. Now she is ticked off. Bros, I have never cheated nor would I ever. I looked at porn and now I am branded as a cheater of sorts.

If any of you bros have gf's or wives that do not have a problem with this, perhaps they could write a little something on this issue. I cannot explain it.

 

[Kane]

Re: Re: Is porn cheating?

i am in the same boat bro--and yes largely it is an insecurity thang
BUT everyone has their hangups (we ain't perfect either,IS we,LOL) and i choose to respect her wishes so it becomes easy for me not to look at any porn and also self gratify as all it takes is some self control and you do get less habituated after a while (although , yes, the urge is there at times)

it is a serious issue and if this is one of her only flaws it is likely best to just respect her and do this for her--YOU IMO are not wrong to do so --HOWEVER this is IMO a small thing in the bigger picture and it honors your commitment and love for her if you do this FOR her
we do not have to agree , but we are a bigger man for respecting them in this area

if ya ever want to talk just slip me your digits

My g/f is the same way and you're right, it's an insecurity issue. She says that every b/f she's ever had has cheated on her. She's a wonderful person and I love her dearly so I stopped looking at porn because she asked me not to. No big deal.

 

[BIGKIWI]

NEVER , porn is deffintaely not cheating, we see soft porn walking down the streets on every billboard in every mag so we all most cheat thousands x daily ,your girl is insecure sorry bro

 

[MightyJohn]

better question....

What about if U make porn....?LOL

 

[tbonus]

The wifey said to take her to a strip club and get her a lap dance. Then tell her to shut the hell up.

 

[IronMike]

what he said...

Yes I agree thats some underhanded shit for her to check behind you. Ask her what she was looking for or expecting? Its not even like you were on a porn site! She should be reileved-Id bet she
was expecting to find you on some internet dating, considering she was suspious enough to look.
Men are so visual, girls are emotional. She is confusing your amusing yourself visually, with what she considers emotional involvment (with a damn picture). My wife knows I like to look at Victoria Secrets/Frerericks Of Hollywood. I told her if you put that book down in front of any man and he doesnt look-he is gay or neutered. Yes, my wife would get pissed if she saw me looking at porn online-but only because women are controlling bitches. But she wouldnt check my history to see about it either. There is a big problem there.

What MikeS said - spot on.

My girl gets pissed, but for the same reasons as MikeS's - they like to control everything, and if they could, they would tap into your head and smack you down any time you looked at another girl's ass and thought "nice butt" (whack), or "big tits there" (slap)... they'd also stop you having the odd beer with your friends, swearing, working where there were any women, catching a bus where there are women, talking to your mate's girl, worknig for a woman, watching TV with women on it.....

Tell her to chill and don't you take it personally. Ivan, you sound like the kinda fella most girls would kill for - honest, you care what she thinks and am committed to being faithful. Tell her to hire a locker and shove all her issues in there then throw away the key. IronMike

 

[MightyJohn]

once again....LOL

what if U R contracted w/a porn label....LOL....it's just no feelings sex right....?