JUST CANNOT BANG MY GIRL.....

[Iron_Beast]

ok PM...here's the deal...please help! i am 32yrs old...been off gear for 4 years, and eagerly awaitig my DVDs to arrive....been thru a little bit of depression lately...and has cause severe anxiety and loss of libido...NOT TAKING MEDICATION BTW....i just can't fuck my girl....she's hot as hell...but nothing in the bedroom....i was going to try an experiment when i get to watch my dvds this week to see if that would/will change things...god i hope so...she keeps saying there is somebody else or that i don't like her...i'm like wtf hun....??!?!?!?!? but it's destroying our relationship....ANY advice...???

 

[Mota]

ok PM...here's the deal...please help! i am 32yrs old...been off gear for 4 years, and eagerly awaitig my DVDs to arrive....been thru a little bit of depression lately...and has cause severe anxiety and loss of libido...NOT TAKING MEDICATION BTW....i just can't fuck my girl....she's hot as hell...but nothing in the bedroom....i was going to try an experiment when i get to watch my dvds this week to see if that would/will change things...god i hope so...she keeps saying there is somebody else or that i don't like her...i'm like wtf hun....??!?!?!?!? but it's destroying our relationship....ANY advice...???

If you have been off gear for 4 years and are having this issue don't you think its worth going in and letting a doc run some test on you before you self medicate?

The blood hormone panel probably would tell a lot, probably a lot more before the results are confused by the DVDs you plan to view.

I love my DVDs... But I'm not sure your use is responsible in this case. What if there is a underling problem causing it, you fix the symptom with your DVD solution, and then the underling problem causes you problems down the road?

 

[jimmyjones]

Melanotan II + Cialis.... Seriously.

 

[Iron_Beast]

If you have been off gear for 4 years and are having this issue don't you think its worth going in and letting a doc run some test on you before you self medicate?

The blood hormone panel probably would tell a lot, probably a lot more before the results are confused by the DVDs you plan to view.

I love my DVDs... But I'm not sure your use is responsible in this case. What if there is a underling problem causing it, you fix the symptom with your DVD solution, and then the underling problem causes you problems down the road?

been in the game way to long to believe what a dr is going to tell me isn't from the careless use of DVD's in my past...so i figure...

 

[matt1164]

ok PM...here's the deal...please help! i am 32yrs old...been off gear for 4 years, and eagerly awaitig my DVDs to arrive....been thru a little bit of depression lately...and has cause severe anxiety and loss of libido...NOT TAKING MEDICATION BTW....i just can't fuck my girl....she's hot as hell...but nothing in the bedroom....i was going to try an experiment when i get to watch my dvds this week to see if that would/will change things...god i hope so...she keeps saying there is somebody else or that i don't like her...i'm like wtf hun....??!?!?!?!? but it's destroying our relationship....ANY advice...???

best bet is to get your hands on some viagra and such until you can get to the dr.

what's causing your depression/anxiety?

 

[Iron_Beast]

it's not cause i can't get a BONER (hahahahah) i said boner...i just have no interest in sex.....

 

[matt1164]

ok, try some dhea. buy it over the counter. I got some from whole foods and it made me horny as hell. do a search for cabergoline also. I never tried it but some guys on this site like it.

 

[Iron_Beast]

yea i think i will and cannot wait to watch my DVD's....

 

[Cast Iron]

it's not cause i can't get a BONER (hahahahah) i said boner...i just have no interest in sex.....

I don't see what the problem is, you say you can get wood, but can't bang your girl.

Is she not achieving orgasm? Your wood don't stick around long enough? You can't cum? Your thinking about the latest sports scores while nailing her vag?

More details are required. And possibly a pic of your lady (naked).

 

[Iron_Beast]

i'll work on the pic bro...LOL! yes, can get wood...just have no interest in sex....there it is...wtf is wrong with me...and yes, i do find my gf to be very attrtactive....so that's not the problem....i don't knwo what my deal is...but worrying me!

 

[jrod]

You gotta look at it like this I hate american idol but since my girl likes it i listen to her ramble on about it and ask me questions about it all the while not being intrested at all do it for her hell if it helps think of it as cardio and always try to go that extra mile hell back when i could run i hated doin it but after a while i enjoyed the hell out of it maybe if you bang her enough the same will happen for you

 

[Jeff Grant]

Go to the damn doctor! I'm 31 and I get my wife naked every chance I can get. If you need viagra at 32 there is a problem.

 

[Iron_Beast]

Go to the damn doctor! I'm 31 and I get my wife naked every chance I can get. If you need viagra at 32 there is a problem.

listen to your advice....watch how u come off of gear cycles...making my life hell! it sucks....i'm going to bang her tonight! i hope!

 

[Cast Iron]

ok PM...here's the deal...please help! i am 32yrs old...been off gear for 4 years, and eagerly awaitig my DVDs to arrive....been thru a little bit of depression lately...and has cause severe anxiety and loss of libido...NOT TAKING MEDICATION BTW....i just can't fuck my girl....she's hot as hell...but nothing in the bedroom....i was going to try an experiment when i get to watch my dvds this week to see if that would/will change things...god i hope so...she keeps saying there is somebody else or that i don't like her...i'm like wtf hun....??!?!?!?!? but it's destroying our relationship....ANY advice...???

I feel the problem lies here.Go see your doc for some anti anxiety medication. Anxiety can be a big fat bummer in the bedroom.

 

[Powerstrokin]

listen to your advice....watch how u come off of gear cycles...making my life hell! it sucks....i'm going to bang her tonight! i hope!

I have been having the same problem for the last 6 months or so. But now that i am back to watching DVD's it has changed in the past 2 weeks. I ain't setting any new records or anything but I am feeling the mood a little more. I also am 32

 

[bigcat56]

I feel the problem lies here.Go see your doc for some anti anxiety medication. Anxiety can be a big fat bummer in the bedroom.

I think it just sounds like his test levels have plummeted. This is exactly how i feel when my levels are really low. I remember dieting down hard while natural... it was the worst ever, my test levels would plummet, sex-drive = gone, depressed, anxious, couldn't sleep... as soon as I'd get back to a "normal" bodyfat level it would all return to normal. Dieting down while on i don't have any of the above issues.

I agree with everyone else telling you to go to the doc. Just get blood levels tested, you can request this, justs ay you want comprehensive blood testing (HDL/LDL/triglycerides/etc , and a hormonal pannel - test, thyroid, etc...) Get you're results - even if the doc gives you trouble about WHY your levels are the way they are (who said you have to tell them about past usage?!) at least you know where you stand.... If test is way low - self medicate with HRT if you choose to do so. If test levels are NOT low - then you know this isnt the source of your issues and maybe you have other shit to sort out (blood pressure, mental issues, etc)

 

[mimnoch]

Was the same for me ... no problem getting it up , just no desire .Ended up being low test. Went on TRT and now life is much better Go see the doc before you watch your dvds

 

[alero]

been in the game way to long to believe what a dr is going to tell me isn't from the careless use of DVD's in my past...so i figure...

It very well could be, and who cares if going helps the situation gets resolved. I made the same mistake of trying to fix the situation myself, and almost lost my relationship because of it.

 

[hemipower]

I agree - do a full blood panel and see what is going on before you take anything...

I have been there and am again - anxiety could also be the issue as I am on HRT and experiencing some of the same disinterest...a year ago I would have interest a couple of times a DAY now it's more like once a week and I'm ok...not like me at all. Anxiety/depression will dry up your libido as quick as low test.

A LOT of factors are needed for proper libido...test being the primary, but also proper igf/gh level, enough sleep, mental clarity, relaxation, even your estrogen and prolactin levels need to be right (not too high but not zero either...).
SO that's why I say start with full blood workup - test, free test, t3/t4. igf, estradiol, liver/kidney function, blood counts and all your health indicators as well just for safety sake since it sounds like you are certain you are about to get back on...then repeat this every 6 months to stay healthy and monitor your levels.

Also I suggest moderation...if you jump on 800-1000mg of test...yeah you will want to bang anything you can, for a while. Then the shutdown and high estro levels and other sides take over and back where you started. See what doc suggests but if your main goal is just HRT and feeling good - 200-300mg test a week, a tiny bit of antiE, 250iu of hcg twice a week, and 2iu of gh once a day and you will feel and perform like you are 19 yrs old again...

 

[Iron_Beast]

guys...thank you so much...i took your advice, and am going to see the DR next week.....