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littlemack
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Man OTH... You are really being a big brother to me right now. I'm so lost man. I know it. I know I need help. I know I need to isolate myself from the situation and focus on "me" for a while. I'm going to do it man. I've gotten through two nights on my own so far and I will continue to "try" and do the right thing and use that internal strength of mine to pick myself up instead of everyone else. Like I really need to be taking care of other people when I can't take care of myself.... I know man. I know. I want you to know that I'm trying J. After you guys all gave me so much great advice, I did put my foot down and told Crystal that we weren't going to do this anymore. She thanked me for being the stronger person to do that, and said that was something she could'nt do. So I'm trying man. I want you all to know that I'm trying. I won't hit rock bottom J. I don't want to see what rock bottom is like. I have no desire to go there.
I hurt inside, but I am feeling better about the possibility that Crystal and I may never get back together. I can't say I feel good about it, but I'm accepting it...
At the moment I'm also trying to surround myself with family and friends to see if that might be helpful. I'm staying with my folks, even though I have my house out in the stix(lol), and I went out with some friends last night and had fun shooting pool and throwing darts. Drank some alcohol but nothing excessive. Just enjoyed being around people. I could go back to my house and live by myself way out in the middle of nowhere, but that's just not appealing to me right now. This weekend I plan to spend some serious time out in the water and do some surfing. That's always been good for my soul. Being out there enjoying nature and chasing waves. That's an activity that's a lot like golf. A real escape from the world. That's one of those activities that I do for myself, much like bodybuilding. I'm getting back in the gym, and you know Mom's lovin' cooking for me in the mornings and evenings... If it weren't for her, I'd be eating fast food and polluting myself with that crap. Just need a little help with things like that... I don't know if everyone's gone through lows like this, but I'm starting to accept that fact that I seriously need help and a lot of love and support from people. I let things get out of hand, and its time to start finding my way back to my old self again. Just know guys, that I am trying ok. I love all you guys on this board. To come and take the time to write up such great posts when you hardly know me at all. That really does mean a lot to me.
Just want ALL of you to know that. Thanks.
I hurt inside, but I am feeling better about the possibility that Crystal and I may never get back together. I can't say I feel good about it, but I'm accepting it...
At the moment I'm also trying to surround myself with family and friends to see if that might be helpful. I'm staying with my folks, even though I have my house out in the stix(lol), and I went out with some friends last night and had fun shooting pool and throwing darts. Drank some alcohol but nothing excessive. Just enjoyed being around people. I could go back to my house and live by myself way out in the middle of nowhere, but that's just not appealing to me right now. This weekend I plan to spend some serious time out in the water and do some surfing. That's always been good for my soul. Being out there enjoying nature and chasing waves. That's an activity that's a lot like golf. A real escape from the world. That's one of those activities that I do for myself, much like bodybuilding. I'm getting back in the gym, and you know Mom's lovin' cooking for me in the mornings and evenings... If it weren't for her, I'd be eating fast food and polluting myself with that crap. Just need a little help with things like that... I don't know if everyone's gone through lows like this, but I'm starting to accept that fact that I seriously need help and a lot of love and support from people. I let things get out of hand, and its time to start finding my way back to my old self again. Just know guys, that I am trying ok. I love all you guys on this board. To come and take the time to write up such great posts when you hardly know me at all. That really does mean a lot to me.
Just want ALL of you to know that. Thanks.